Things Guys Do That Turn Off Korean Women ft itsjinakim

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    Today me and Jina talked about some of the things guys do that turn us off!
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Komentar • 237

  • itsjinakim
    itsjinakim 4 bulan yang lalu +147

    Love your background, sister ❣️❣️❣️

    • james bateman
      james bateman 4 bulan yang lalu

      @Ashley Zheng Ashley Zheng lol

    • Ashley Zheng
      Ashley Zheng 4 bulan yang lalu +2

      itsjinakim hi Jina noona, Rachel noona and Mike please notice me

    • james bateman
      james bateman 4 bulan yang lalu +1

      @Dmitry Kim holy crap Dmitry Kim she did lol . So how have you be my friend ?

    • r0sab0t ARMY
      r0sab0t ARMY 4 bulan yang lalu

      Dmitry Kim what are you talking about?

  • Jetomitte
    Jetomitte 26 hari yang lalu

    I normally like your videos but when you started talking about the guy Who sang for jina I clicked off to a other video
    I am sorry but I couldbt help myself lmfao

  • Joshua Thabane
    Joshua Thabane Bulan Yang lalu

    8:28 Is that a guy or a girl? Can't honestly tell... what a world.

  • Roni Maulana
    Roni Maulana Bulan Yang lalu

    kim jina is beautiful

  • Krypton853
    Krypton853 Bulan Yang lalu

    Really I thought girl's love assholes and criminal looking guys well mostly here in the states. I don't know about South Korea but I do watch Kdrama were mostly all the guys that starts off is an an asshole to the main girl but slowly progress into a nice guy. Most notable boys over flowers and Playful Kiss.

  • Paul the 2 mikolaj DuPont SΓΈrensen

    Yes I do agree ladies. People needs too stop acting like everything is like an k-drama or an j-drama

  • Lutzifalilia
    Lutzifalilia Bulan Yang lalu

    I mean if my boyfriend/girlfriend would play guitar for me or cleans the foam of my face that would be fine... But some random ass person doing that... Bruh, no.

  • CikosOnly
    CikosOnly Bulan Yang lalu

    At least you got interesting dates hahahaha

  • Jarod Goodwin
    Jarod Goodwin Bulan Yang lalu

    γ…‹γ…‹γ…‹ I've been known to serenade women before but only women I've been seeing seriously and for an obvious romantic occasion, doing that randomly out of nowhere and on the first date or first couple of dates is really cringey and I feel like is something guys must do just to show case their egos γ…Žγ…Žγ…Ž

  • Mia[ν™© μ‚΄λž‘]
    Mia[ν™© μ‚΄λž‘] 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    I have no problem with most of these I guess
    But well it never happened so idk 🀣

  • jeanjaz
    jeanjaz 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    Something I have found interesting is the differences between "personal space" and "personal touching" in different cultures.
    I'm not sure about personal space in Korea, but I found in Europe, that people are comfortable sitting closer together, where Americans are uncomfortable if people, even people they know, are too close to them. Whether it is a park bench, or standing on a bus, Americans expect their personal space to be respected, every though on a personal level we are a more "touchy" people in general. We reach out an touch our friends and family, sometimes for no particular reason at all. Not all people are like that, but many are.
    It seems Koreans are the opposite? They will stand or sit closer to strangers more readily than Americans, but personal touching is only for specific situations and it is considered rude outside of those situations.

  • jeanjaz
    jeanjaz 2 bulan yang lalu

    This video brought a number of things to mind. I may separate them so the post isn't too long.
    First, even in America where I'm from, we are a multi-cultural country. Even one small town can have a number of sub-cultures. This means that people have different levels of comfort zones. So dating can be tricky and requires sensitivity unless you know what that person is comfortable with already.
    What I've notice, at least from K-dramas, is that Koreans are more open to saying, "that makes me uncomfortable" or even asking if it makes them uncomfortable.
    In the US, we are more likely to smile and go along with most things, but will make a point to never be with that person again.
    Perhaps this is because we are such a large country that it is fairly easy to avoid people.

  • Kilo Bravo
    Kilo Bravo 2 bulan yang lalu +2

    Don't do those things to any girl yuck!

  • Zoe Ankrum
    Zoe Ankrum 3 bulan yang lalu +1

    Personally, I like head pats/rubs and the wiping the whipped cream off her mouth thing. I think things like that are really romantic and cute. Though if after a first date a guy offered to take me home I would say no. But I like it when he at least offers to take me home. If he at least offers to take me home I like it. I also really like cringy lines like "oh you have something on your"

  • TheGroovyJones
    TheGroovyJones 3 bulan yang lalu

    Is it just me or did the thumbnail look like "FFS!" Which is very different than "turn offs".

  • ChainL!nkz
    ChainL!nkz 3 bulan yang lalu +1

    You girls have been dating freaks! xD

  • M.J.M Brooks
    M.J.M Brooks 3 bulan yang lalu

    Oppa reminds me of when people started using β€œBae” here in the States. I was so annoyed because I thought it was because people were too lazy to spell out the word Babe. But apparently it means Before Anyone Else πŸ™„.

    • Joshua Thabane
      Joshua Thabane Bulan Yang lalu

      ...What? I've heard people say, "My *bae* ..."

  • Ricardo Irigoyen
    Ricardo Irigoyen 3 bulan yang lalu

    Rachel & Jina were so funny in this video. Poor fellows will have to have more creative dating techniques to have a chance with Rachel & Jina! ;-)

  • Johnny J2D3
    Johnny J2D3 3 bulan yang lalu

    It's just SO COOL to see that being myself in Korea it's something important or at least valuable at some level, here women end up choosing bad guys or guys that treats them bad, they don't even care about manners... this video makes me feel hope in humanity again!

  • T. Dee
    T. Dee 3 bulan yang lalu

    I love you 2 together!! πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

  • Christopher Rivera
    Christopher Rivera 3 bulan yang lalu +1

    I thought us American guys flexed (doing too much) too hard on girls during dates, but, Korean guys are something else πŸ˜‚. Petting the hair thing, now, that's just weird as a guy

  • Sheila Lambert
    Sheila Lambert 3 bulan yang lalu +2

    Rachel Kim where I am from in USA in the south we think that a gentleman picks up his date and takes her home.

  • Gabrielle Russell
    Gabrielle Russell 3 bulan yang lalu +2

    When they said Secret Garden I cracked up πŸ˜‚ (Big Bang)

  • Johnny English, PhD
    Johnny English, PhD 3 bulan yang lalu +2

    If a guy tries to be romantic, it will fail. Romance is a symptom of real love. If a guy is genuinely in love with you, his behaviour will just naturally seem romantic, even though he never actually intended to make you feel that way.

  • Johnny English, PhD
    Johnny English, PhD 3 bulan yang lalu

    He wiped your mouth!!? γ…‹γ…‹γ…‹γ…‹γ…‹

  • Johnny English, PhD
    Johnny English, PhD 3 bulan yang lalu +1

    Is it OK if I'm mean to aggressive men? Weak men never bother me.

    KORLIC DASHELL 4 bulan yang lalu

    Hi Rachel, I have a question for you, did u used to date Terry?? did u guys had a thing ?? it was fun to watch your videos together but when I saw at the date it says 2018 but latley I dont see any video with him so I was wondering. I ask because the way u 2 look with each other was very cute

  • GenLiu
    GenLiu 4 bulan yang lalu +1

    The oppa thing isn't as Korean as you may think. There is a number of peoples in France who refere to themself as a "he" and it's quiet annoying. too.
    Also, the dude showing up at a date wearing a T-shirt with his face on it is kinda the next level of narcissism lol
    Also, also, Even in my country where we're kinda touchy in nature, touching a woman's face without asking for permission first could potentially lead to getting your cheek slaped so, I can understand why it's not okay for a Korean lady.
    It's fine here though, just, we clearly need to ask if it's okay first.

  • Kristen Bush
    Kristen Bush 4 bulan yang lalu

    The face wipe off I don't think its too bad lmaoo

  • Abeer아비루
    Abeer아비루 4 bulan yang lalu +1

    Jin had a really really reallyyy bad exs

  • Mikka Vanhala
    Mikka Vanhala 4 bulan yang lalu

    πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

  • sandyandy 37
    sandyandy 37 4 bulan yang lalu

    I love your collabs
    It was so funny

  • Scarlett MP
    Scarlett MP 4 bulan yang lalu

    IM IN LOVE WITH THIS CHANNEL!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ stop touching my hair please is an Afro and I can’t wash it every two days and NO baby I will not call you oppa that’s so cringe πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ specially because I’m not Korean! I know you are but I’m not and is not my culture either less a word to appropriate! I’m not a koreaboo even tho I’m living in South Korea that doesn’t mean I’m here for the boys, I’m here to get my masters degree, you just got lucky I fall in love with you πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

  • Provuze
    Provuze 4 bulan yang lalu

    Rachel is what they call in Korea λŠλΌν•˜λ‹€

  • William Humes
    William Humes 4 bulan yang lalu

    date fail. five minuutes and out.

  • Judy Logsdon
    Judy Logsdon 4 bulan yang lalu +3

    Super cringey scenarios there. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ Some men are the same all over the world. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ They think they are impressing you but they are really sending up red flags by the handful by doing these things. I’m sure men can share some equally cringe-worthy tales about dating, too. 😳

  • Shadow81989
    Shadow81989 4 bulan yang lalu +1

    These stories are funny and scary at the same time... I'm a guy and wouldn't even think about doing ANY of this - if I had a car I would probably offer to bring you home, but certainly not insist if you say no. That's just creepy!

  • Haaxorsi β€’
    Haaxorsi β€’ 4 bulan yang lalu

    well, in my opinion, patting the head is fine but not done too much.. dont do it in such a kdrama way πŸ˜…

  • Gigglelot
    Gigglelot 4 bulan yang lalu +1

    You can hear the guys chatting in the background. Tell them to "shhhhh" next time :-)

  • Rin Chan
    Rin Chan 4 bulan yang lalu

    Lolz. I agree with the most of the list here, especially don't touch my hair. No matter what race a girl is majority of them hates guys messing up their hair. But I don't I would mind too much about the coffee scene one, it happens often enough in my country forbit to be considered normal

  • Matthew
    Matthew 4 bulan yang lalu +12

    Aggressive head rub in a crowded place.
    (She'll definitely like me now I've just ruined the hair she spent an hour on this morning and everyone can see it)

  • MichaelNoName
    MichaelNoName 4 bulan yang lalu

    5:50 Jina says, "I dated a gay" then proceeds to talk nothing about how he's gay??? Huh?

  • Ιωάννα Σούντρη

    Ohhh those things are just so cringey. I'm from Greece and at least my friends and i (idk about other girls) don't like things like this lmaooo.

  • kalmtraveler
    kalmtraveler 4 bulan yang lalu

    Rachel and Jina - how do you guys survive this heat? I've been in Seoul for 2 weeks so far and every day I have to shower 3-4 times because it's so hot outside!

  • Michael Hallak
    Michael Hallak 4 bulan yang lalu

    That was very generic

  • RubΓ©n Trejo C.
    RubΓ©n Trejo C. 4 bulan yang lalu

    u 2 are too cute ...regards!

  • 7A
    7A 4 bulan yang lalu +4

    i always give a girl a signed 8" by 10" glossy of myself as a keepsake.
    i will look soulfully into her eyes and say softly, "i want you to have this as i know how much this moment means to you."

    • Judy Logsdon
      Judy Logsdon 4 bulan yang lalu +2

      Bwhaaaaaaaaa πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

  • jdmtyteeeyo
    jdmtyteeeyo 4 bulan yang lalu

    so needy!!!! haha lol jk jk what kind of guys are you guys going on dates with!!! jeeze.. i will show you the perfect date..

  • Chloe Patt
    Chloe Patt 4 bulan yang lalu

    Meanwhile...guys in Europe dont even bother to make romantic gestures :-/ Loll

  • Grey Fox
    Grey Fox 4 bulan yang lalu

    Respect gals by not humbugging them about their exes, especially their past sexual encounters...few wanna discuss that regardless if you wanna hear the juicy details.. πŸ˜‚

  • timetravel.
    timetravel. 4 bulan yang lalu

    Being ugly is another serious red flag

  • Grey Fox
    Grey Fox 4 bulan yang lalu

    Ever heard the expression, don't guild the LilyπŸŒΊπŸ€ πŸ˜‚

  • Ashursardan
    Ashursardan 4 bulan yang lalu +2

    While most of what was said here is reasonable, two things left me perplexed: 1) Why would any girl stick around for a second date with a guy who mistreated service staff or exhibited bullying behavior to those weaker than himself? In my opinion, a girl who would date a guy like that is just as unsavory as her man. 2) Unless I somehow misunderstood, Jina stated that she went on a date with a gay man. What sense is there in that? If what she really meant was that she had a friendly outing with a gay guy, then okay. That doesn’t qualify as a date, though. Dating inherently includes romantic, or at the very least, sexual, interest. Apart from simple friendship, why waste each other’s time? Lastly, we fellows got mixed messages from the both of you about if we should take you home after an initial date or not. Rachel thinks it’s uncomfortable and dangerous to be driven home by a non-boyfriend (which is logical), while Jina thinks that it shows a lack of interest to not drive her home. It’s not that two girls can’t express different opinions, it’s that this video is purported to explain behavior that Korean girls in general find unappealing in men. I can only think that the best action would be to tell the girl that you wouldn’t mind seeing her home, but that you wouldn’t be offended if she declined. Videos like these are ultimately helpful to single men, but I don’t believe there is really a consensus among women about what turns them off. My example of this would be that I had a girlfriend that would regularly ask me to put my hand on her head (but not in public, of course). Although the frequency of it was a bit strange, it didn’t bother me to do so, as she felt it comforting, and I considered it affectionate. Then again, she wasn’t Korean, so I suppose the example doesn’t qualify here. Regardless, I thoroughly enjoy your videos, Rachel. I glean useful cultural insight and much laughter from them. Also, I find it incredible how very much like a native English speaker that you communicate. Apart from a teensy bit of accent (which I find appealing), it seems as though English is your first language. Truly impressive, and a hallmark of superior intelligence. And, no, I don’t think you secretly want to be a White girl. That is something that only a moron would surmise. If only I could someday master Korean the way you have conquered the nuances of English. How very enriching that would be.

  • typical _taΕΊ
    typical _taΕΊ 4 bulan yang lalu

    Can you guys please do asmr

  • typical _taΕΊ
    typical _taΕΊ 4 bulan yang lalu +3

    ASMR with that coke sound 😍🀣

  • JP GotEm
    JP GotEm 4 bulan yang lalu

    Ahahah i love how she say guitar

  • Latifah Kareem
    Latifah Kareem 4 bulan yang lalu

    Hey, Rachel Kim, i think you should do the opposite. I think that will be interesting
    P.S. Love your videos and Jina Kim

  • Donnamark yang
    Donnamark yang 4 bulan yang lalu +1

    Yasss just love it when you two collaborate!πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

  • vuyokazi sodinga
    vuyokazi sodinga 4 bulan yang lalu

    You know what's really cringey and only works in the movies and kdrama?
    When a guy watches you sleep.
    You THINK it'd be romantic for the first thing to wake up to is someone you like. But dude, its the scariest thing ever

  • vuyokazi sodinga
    vuyokazi sodinga 4 bulan yang lalu

    YASSSSS another collab!!!