The Bizarre But True Origins Of Wedding Traditions

  • Dipublikasikan tanggal 14 Agu 2017
  • Here's a hint: our ancestors were VERY afraid of evil and VERY into kidnapping.
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Komentar • 621

  • My Name
    My Name Bulan Yang lalu

    We all know they will still do the traditional wedding style regardless of what this video says. No red dress will be worn and rings will be given.

  • Blandy McBlanderson
    Blandy McBlanderson 2 bulan yang lalu

    So they actually stole their heart

  • Azreal Vega
    Azreal Vega 3 bulan yang lalu

    Kinda funny how brides make a big deal about choosing a dress when they all just choose the same unflattering sleeveless white dress

  • Ray Adorni
    Ray Adorni 4 bulan yang lalu

    None of this goes too far into the pre-christian origins of any of these things. It should be called "The christian origins of wedding stuff: Evil spirits edition".... The Honey Moon was Norse in Origin a groom would keep Honey mead hidden away until the first full moon after a wedding. If it was discovered by the bride or if it was consumed at an inappropriate time it was a sign of a cursed marriage. It prophesied bad luck.

  • Essie Weigt
    Essie Weigt 7 bulan yang lalu


  • RyogaHibikiPigDance
    RyogaHibikiPigDance 8 bulan yang lalu

    I get super gay vibes from her fiance.

  • Little Dragon
    Little Dragon 9 bulan yang lalu

    The reason white dresses are so popular is because Queen Victoria wore one. Simple.

  • Williamson
    Williamson 9 bulan yang lalu

  • glitche r
    glitche r 10 bulan yang lalu

    Thats why there is so much devorce ward off all that evil spirits yall

  • Nour Ahmad
    Nour Ahmad 11 bulan yang lalu

    her dog at the end 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • lee bags
    lee bags Tahun Yang lalu

    OMG both of them just needs to come out of the closet already!

  • Alli M.
    Alli M. Tahun Yang lalu

    Was that Bernie Sanders?

  • Michele Ashley
    Michele Ashley Tahun Yang lalu

    Women also carried flowers because people weren't always able to bathe frequently.

  • KamisKisses
    KamisKisses Tahun Yang lalu

    The dog at the end was not amused by her question lol

  • Original Name
    Original Name Tahun Yang lalu

    Is that Kurt from Carmilla?

  • Nightwolf
    Nightwolf Tahun Yang lalu +1

    Actually the bride's held a bouquet because they had a good shower once a year and they held those to hide the stench

  • Pastel Cobra
    Pastel Cobra Tahun Yang lalu +3

    Random Fact: In Latin the letter “v” is pronounced as a “w”.

    • Pastel Cobra
      Pastel Cobra Tahun Yang lalu +1

      AnimeGirl Oh cool!!

    • Livi 101
      Livi 101 Tahun Yang lalu +1

      Pastel Cobra same in polish

  • Nic Draws
    Nic Draws Tahun Yang lalu

    My great-great-great grandad kidnapped his bride/ my great-great-great grandmom who was the niece of the king, I believe. Like you said, it was culture to kidnap your bride.

  • Kimberly Jones
    Kimberly Jones Tahun Yang lalu

    They say u should wear a red dress like the rest of the world but then theyd scream cultural appropriation if u actually did that like they did with the poor girl who went to her prom in an Asian dress

  • Shannon Gal
    Shannon Gal Tahun Yang lalu

    Also the flowers, people used to not wash very often so if they couldn’t wash before their wedding the women used the flowers to smell good

  • Violett Corrine
    Violett Corrine Tahun Yang lalu

    My aunt wore a red dress to her wedding

    TRACY ZHAI Tahun Yang lalu

    In China, white is the color of DEATH!

  • Amber_ Playz
    Amber_ Playz Tahun Yang lalu

    This is why I don’t want to get married.

  • Tracer
    Tracer Tahun Yang lalu

    oh... hi

  • KittyBananas205
    KittyBananas205 Tahun Yang lalu

    It was 600 comments and I felt the need to ruin it

  • insane247
    insane247 Tahun Yang lalu

    all veins lead to your heart...

  • NarutoBaby94
    NarutoBaby94 Tahun Yang lalu

    Origins are origins. If the traditions mean something to you/represent you, DO IT. (At the very least, it's an in your face to all our past ancestors who did terrible things)

  • kelsey armes
    kelsey armes Tahun Yang lalu

    I agree, so many good and creepy reasons to NOT have that traditional wedding!!

  • P Vincente
    P Vincente Tahun Yang lalu

    Leave off the father walking the bride, down the aisle, unless the groom's mom will walk him down the aisle.

  • Loser
    Loser Tahun Yang lalu


  • Aleyah Malone
    Aleyah Malone Tahun Yang lalu

    This is awful. 😂

  • poetically broken
    poetically broken Tahun Yang lalu

    What kind of dog do you have?

  • Sarah Milner
    Sarah Milner Tahun Yang lalu

    I'm of the "Do what makes you feel happy and special" school. If a floofy white dress makes you happy, go for it. If having coed bridal attendants makes you happy, do it. If getting married in jeans does it for you, good for you.

  • Yukimiko0001
    Yukimiko0001 Tahun Yang lalu

    Doesn't the white dress come from kaiserin sissi?

  • oBringMeTheDiscoCake
    oBringMeTheDiscoCake Tahun Yang lalu

    I like how eventually he gets lets hopeful with his answers LOL

  • Nechama Goldberger
    Nechama Goldberger Tahun Yang lalu

    I’m sorry to say but the veil thing is wrong.
    The reason is in biblical times Rebbecca and Jacob were going to be married and It wasn’t “appropriate “ to see the husband before marriage so it was to shield the eyes.

  • Daisy Perez
    Daisy Perez Tahun Yang lalu

    The video was funny. Now imagine watching it in speed x1.5. Hah-LAR-ious

  • Athena Poe
    Athena Poe Tahun Yang lalu

    At our wedding, we are not having bridesmaids or groomsmen. We will have a best man and bridesmaid though.

  • DeMarie Jones
    DeMarie Jones Tahun Yang lalu

    actually before Queen Victoria it was common to wear your Sunday dress, if you were from a lower class family, or if from an upper class family you could wear any color you wanted.

  • Ilina G
    Ilina G Tahun Yang lalu

    in india there is this freaking weird tradition where the girls side steals the boys side's shoes and make them pay money to get their shoes back

  • irgendein mädel
    irgendein mädel Tahun Yang lalu

    If he still wanted to marry her after this video its real love

  • Emma’s Explorations
    Emma’s Explorations Tahun Yang lalu

    Did she propose to him?

  • no lainey stop
    no lainey stop Tahun Yang lalu +1

    2:13 but she look like Tom Holland

  • zw0lfb4um
    zw0lfb4um Tahun Yang lalu

    Sooooo most wedding traditions are kinda sexist and classist? Good to know 👰👍

  • isadora urzeda
    isadora urzeda Tahun Yang lalu

    The flowers were also used to keep out the smell because if they didn’t have enough buckets people would just pee in the corner

  • CottonCandyJam
    CottonCandyJam Tahun Yang lalu

    This like makes me not want to do a lot of normal wedding things now ... all the things that 'support' women being owned and forced into things. Obviously that's not what any of that means today, but.
    Good thing no one wants to marry me anyways.

  • mediocre at best
    mediocre at best Tahun Yang lalu


  • Blue Boy
    Blue Boy Tahun Yang lalu +1

    She looks like Arizona from grays anatomy. The show is great. Don't judge me...

  • Leah Morris
    Leah Morris Tahun Yang lalu

    They are soooo cute omg !!!

  • Bee Bee!
    Bee Bee! Tahun Yang lalu

    They should keep the tradition of the red dress

  • Salma 1234
    Salma 1234 Tahun Yang lalu

    I'm Indian so I have to were a red dress

  • Sunny John
    Sunny John Tahun Yang lalu

    Really impressive

  • Ring Neck
    Ring Neck Tahun Yang lalu

    Wedding itself is a dying tradition

  • Elena Mihai
    Elena Mihai Tahun Yang lalu

    I’m Romanian And here they “steal” the bride And you need to pay to get her back

  • Crystal Chen
    Crystal Chen Tahun Yang lalu

    Best dog

  • Xochilt Gonzalez-Salinas
    Xochilt Gonzalez-Salinas Tahun Yang lalu


  • Lauren Hook
    Lauren Hook Tahun Yang lalu

    They had a bouquet because back in the day, there were no such things as deodorant and they tried to mask their smell with flowers.

  • woof woof
    woof woof Tahun Yang lalu

    Class vid xx

  • thatt nerd
    thatt nerd Tahun Yang lalu

    That's weird but funny all about kidnapped and evil spirits 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Men Bu Nigo
    Men Bu Nigo Tahun Yang lalu

    In Islam there was no such thing as wearing rings. Now days people wear them according to their culture and traditions

  • CorazonTejano
    CorazonTejano Tahun Yang lalu

    all this horrible origins of wedding traditions and people still want to follow them xD

  • R Prince
    R Prince Tahun Yang lalu

    Your Fiance dips into his hair a little too

  • BigFanOfManyThings
    BigFanOfManyThings Tahun Yang lalu

    Bottle green was also a popular colour for wedding dresses

  • Living Life with Momma Wendy Waeghe

    Flowers were also carried to mask body odor, in the 1800's bathing didn't happen very often.

  • Sarah Gawle
    Sarah Gawle Tahun Yang lalu

    Actually, the origin of the WORD honeymoon (rather than the concept) was from middle age taverns gifting newly weds a tankard of mead that would typically last a month. A "honey" "moon cycle".

  • Julie Perez
    Julie Perez Tahun Yang lalu

    She looks like Erica Han from Greys anatomy

  • jackie lai
    jackie lai Tahun Yang lalu

    great video, I never knew this before!!

  • Callai Jane Hood
    Callai Jane Hood Tahun Yang lalu

    I heard overwatch in the background. That's all I care about in this video.

  • motherlove202
    motherlove202 Tahun Yang lalu

    Another reason for the bouquet and having weddings in June: in the 1800s, people took baths only once a year, particularly in May. By June people started to smell hence having the bouquet to ward off the smell

  • TaffyChu
    TaffyChu Tahun Yang lalu

    I'm going to my aunt Ashley's wedding tomorrow
    She's gonna be wearing a black wedding dress