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  • ANGELA ESCOBAR
    ANGELA ESCOBAR Bulan Yang lalu +3454

    I feel like it all started when you were talking about your mental health and he basically said you have no reason to be sad/ depressed because the life you have- which I feel like no guy really can understand what we go through after having a baby. I love you both and I agree people will judge your relationship because your life is on the internet for everyone to see. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. Ignore the hate. It’s impossible to be perfect and make everyone happy. Congrats on all your achievements Alo! You been through so much and deserve nothing but the best for you and your little family ❤️

    • starryshi
      starryshi Bulan Yang lalu

      He doesn't care about her lol if he did he would see her pain and want to help her. that's true love. even if he didn't understand what she was going through he would still be there. that's sad no one deserves that

    • SHOOK BITCH
      SHOOK BITCH Bulan Yang lalu

      @Rhianna Aguilar exactlyyyy

    • R.C Family
      R.C Family Bulan Yang lalu

      She knows it was pretty messed up she just has to covered up for him to not make him look bad buuuut we alllll know!!!!!

    • Lessly Reyes
      Lessly Reyes Bulan Yang lalu

      THIS

    • ANGELA ESCOBAR
      ANGELA ESCOBAR Bulan Yang lalu

      @R C I’m saying because she said she doesn’t know why people are hating… I’m letting her know why. I personally don’t have a problem with Benny. I knew his intentions were to be positive, just he didn’t understand where she was coming from and a lot of people took that negatively and personally that’s when I noticed the negativity begin

  • Ruby Esmeralda
    Ruby Esmeralda Bulan Yang lalu +136

    I love that your speaking up and having your significant other's back, but remember you don't have to explain yourself. You're damned if you do and you're damed if you don't. Always. Everyone will always have their own opinion and you can't change that and you can't please everyone. You don't owe anyone explanations. I get you guys are on social media but just let people talk. I'm proud of you guys and congratulations on your house!

  • Alexis Ruiz
    Alexis Ruiz Bulan Yang lalu +200

    I’m so glad your talking about this cause I didn’t understand why people think that you would ever be with someone who would not treat you like a queen you are and Benny is such a genuine and good person I mean you can definitely see it so good for you girl !

    • SHOOK BITCH
      SHOOK BITCH Bulan Yang lalu

      Cuz she’s in denial she should rewatch how he used to be

    • Destiney Amerie
      Destiney Amerie Bulan Yang lalu

      What I don’t understand though.. is how is she saying it’s her mortgage, so she’s paying it.. yet What hers is his and his is hers.. make it make sense.. because if that was the case it wouldn’t be title her mortgage her payments.. should that be spit.?? It’s none of my business how or what goes on in their relationship.. but this is what I’m NOT understanding..

    • Vee Xo
      Vee Xo Bulan Yang lalu +6

      Because many people are.. they have kids and don’t leave or take years to leave

  • Yesi V
    Yesi V Bulan Yang lalu +21

    As a girl myself who struggles with mental health daily. WHEN YOU SAID “you just don’t get it” it shouldn’t open any doors for people to start hate comments. I completely understand you. My BF and I have a 18 month old, we just bought a house, I am a stay at home mom, he works full time. And I try to explain to him my mental health issues and sometimes it’s not that I don’t trust him but I just don’t want to bring it up to him because even myself, I think, why do I feel this way if I’m so blessed. No matter how we say it, NO ONE WILL EVER GET IT. Only a person who struggles with it will understand. & that is not Bennys fault. As u said, he’s stronger minded and so is my BF. he’s there for me, but his words to make me feel better will always be “look at what we have, a house, health, a baby” because he wants me to see the positive side. Benny is just trying to help and seeing that video of u two before all this hate I completely understood you both bc AGAIN, this is very very normal in a relationship where one struggles with mental health. PPL on social media think it’s ok to judge when I am sure their lives are miserable but will never ever show that bc it’s easier to say “oh Benny needs to be more supportive, mean while they are still single for a reason themselves”
    I have also brought up to my bf in me buying a house for myself. This is nothing against him, but it’s nice as women to have a source of income that no matter what will always be us. I am proud you guys did that, believe me you will never regret your own assets 🥲
    I NEVER READ NOR SPECIALLY WRITE COMMENTS but you guys deserve one. I hope you guys get through this soon ❤

  • erika lugo
    erika lugo Bulan Yang lalu +92

    this video actually made me so sad bc people just don’t wanna see you and benny both growing and thriving, can’t wait to see what the future holds your beautiful family 🤍🤍🤍

  • Giselle G
    Giselle G Bulan Yang lalu +4403

    i’ve noticed it getting bad.. what people don’t understand is that you guys get to choose what you want to show us. we will never know what goes on behind closed doors. Keep your head up bb! your REAL supporters got you

    • Janette
      Janette Bulan Yang lalu

      @Fab according to YOU that’s the worst 20min, I’m pretty sure they have been thru worse lmao ur funny. ion even be supporting them like that but y’all be some goofy up in these comments 😭😭😂

    • Lexi Granados
      Lexi Granados Bulan Yang lalu

      Exactly well said 💯

    • Fab
      Fab Bulan Yang lalu +1

      @Alta Frampton cutest couple 🥲🥲🥲 that relationship is sad af

    • Emmy Turner
      Emmy Turner Bulan Yang lalu

      Your right about one thing. She only shows you what she wants you to see.

    • Emmy Turner
      Emmy Turner Bulan Yang lalu

      Stop giving millionaires your money and your sympathy. You stans are being exploited and that only becomes a character flaw when you start asking for more.

  • Rebecca Sanchez
    Rebecca Sanchez Bulan Yang lalu +86

    Attagirl Alondra! Sometimes people need to be reminded how hard it is to have a career on Social Media. Sometimes people's actions and comments are stemmed from what they are going through as well. And sometimes there are those that get paid to talk sh!+ on Social Media. You, Benny, and the baby are a beautiful family. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your lives with the IDclips community and thank you for inspiring not only the Hispanic/Latin community, but other communities in striving for their own goals. Much love to you and the family 😘🥰 🤗😍🤩😊

    • Regdu Geht
      Regdu Geht Bulan Yang lalu

      YOURE TRENDING AGAIN GIRLY don’t let these lame ass haters get to u, they hating bc they’re jealous- real recognizes real so please keep going with youtube, we love you!

  • CookingwithMamaMaggie
    CookingwithMamaMaggie Bulan Yang lalu +118

    I watch Benny all the time. You have to be blind not to see what a great Dad he is. I wonder where you are at times during his videos. I wonder if you are not feeling well. You are so lucky to have Benny by your side. I suffered with post partum depression, my ex husband would just leave and go out with his friends. I see Benny trying to take you out, on little vacations. Trying to lessen the load on you, to boost you up. I'm happy you guys have each other. Love your family 🥰💝 Congratulations on everything, you guys are accomplished so much. Ignore the trolls, misery loves company. You are doing great, and trust me the dark cloud is temporary, one day you will have nothing but sunshine 💛🙏🙌

  • Khu Xiong
    Khu Xiong Bulan Yang lalu +69

    Haters will always hate. Don’t stress out about it girl. They will always try to get to you no matter what. I’m so proud of you for being so strong to even show us this side of you. Your real supports will always be here and stand with you.

    • Regdu Geht
      Regdu Geht Bulan Yang lalu

      a happy relationship. Ppl just need a reason to say something. Keep shining guys.

  • Marzena Zegar
    Marzena Zegar Bulan Yang lalu

    I’ve been a supporter of both you and Benny since the beginning, back to when you guys had individual channels before you even met 🤍 Honestly, you don’t owe anyone anything and what people have to say says more about them than you. You got this girl. 🤍

  • aimaFHS
    aimaFHS Bulan Yang lalu +1166

    Love the fact that you stepped in to protect your man when you know he’s going through it right now in his personal life. Props to you Alo❤

    • Destiney Amerie
      Destiney Amerie Bulan Yang lalu

      @starryshi she is! Girl needs to take off her Blinders!!

    • starryshi
      starryshi Bulan Yang lalu +1

      @Destiney Amerie she's being manipulated it's sad

    • starryshi
      starryshi Bulan Yang lalu +2

      Putting his needs over hers. Ew. could neva be me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • Destiney Amerie
      Destiney Amerie Bulan Yang lalu

      @Fab fr even his attitude shifted.. he use to laugh a lot and now he be way serious.. and what I do not get, is.. she says what’s hers is his and his is hers right..? YET she just stated it’s HER HOUSE, her mortgage and she’s paying!! Like uuuum if that was the case, should they say it’s their house, their payment.. she is getting playing like a fool all around.. plus I see how he be putting all his thumbnails of her.. like she’s a joke.. just like Elseys baby daddy made fun of her BBl and lips so does Benny smh

    • Destiney Amerie
      Destiney Amerie Bulan Yang lalu

      She be doing the most for him doing “Wifie material” things without the title

  • Justice G
    Justice G 16 hari yang lalu

    I’m glad you said the “negativity is not okay” because that’s a FACT! Call them out ! Call out the hate and stop it when it reaches the surface. This is your family your life, you’re human and so is your man. I couldn’t imagine someone causing hate toward my husband and me not calling it out when it happens. Hate is not okay. Call them out or block them because people are going to hate no matter what and it’s your job to cut it off at the root. No more videos on hateful people it just fuels them even more.

  • Lexi Granados
    Lexi Granados Bulan Yang lalu

    Keep your head up Beautiful ❤️ you know exactly the love y'all have for each other don't let people bring you down yall are stronge and the Lord is Blessing y'all ❤️💯 You don't need to explain yourself let people think what they want.
    P.S. I love y'all's videos keep doing what y'all are doing you guys are a inspiration to me ❤️ love y'all 💯🙏🏼❤️

  • Ariana Romero
    Ariana Romero Bulan Yang lalu +11

    Sending you 2 lots of love❤ I’ve been a fan on Benny’s for a long time! It’s crazy to see how people are so quick to judge off of a 15min video you guys put out. Everyone’s love language is different and I can tell Benny is a giver/provider he wants the best for you and Legend. Just because he’s not all up on you or putting on this happy happy face all the time doesn’t mean he doesn’t love or care for you. I personally love how you guys do things separately to be honest. Because you guys are both growing, encouraging and helping each other. Love y’all ❤

  • Cynthia Trujillo
    Cynthia Trujillo Bulan Yang lalu

    Wow! I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I have always taught my daughters you never know what someone is going through so just be nice to people and be good human beings. People feel so entitled to know stuff that isn’t even their business. People need to understand you choose what you share. They don’t have a right to be jerks to people. You shouldn’t even have to explain what or why you two buy stuff the way you do or not. Some people are so mean.
    You are a cute little family 💗 I’m so happy for you that you stood up for your guy and yourself.

  • Linda Lara
    Linda Lara Bulan Yang lalu +770

    I truly admire your courage to speak up and stand up for yourself, your partner and your family together. This vulnerability is empowerment. I respect you saying how you feel, how the comments make you feel and asking for them to please stop for both you and Benny, this is the epitome of effective communication. Proud of you Alondra! 🥰

    • Jesus Saves!
      Jesus Saves! Bulan Yang lalu

      When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals!
      The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil.
      I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God!

    • Jesus Saves!
      Jesus Saves! Bulan Yang lalu

      Jesus Christ died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him. True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better! Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. 👍🏾
      *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.*
      As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him.
      Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

    • Fabzdlt
      Fabzdlt Bulan Yang lalu

      This!!!

  • SierraLove💋
    SierraLove💋 Bulan Yang lalu

    I Love how you do you’re makeup love you’re so beautiful with a good soul around you love I love you’re style love your so gorgeous 💗🫶🏼 block out the negativity love you’re so beautiful you guys deserve the world I love your hair 💕don’t let people bring you down.

  • Caren Amaya
    Caren Amaya Bulan Yang lalu

    Thank you for letting the people who posted negative comments about Benny know the need to quit it. He seems like a genuinely good person❤

  • Bernadette Vidal
    Bernadette Vidal Bulan Yang lalu

    These negative trolls need to stay in there own lane and mind there own business. You are and Benny are awesome!! Prayers to Benny and his family! People stop the hate. 😢

  • TexasMadeBiitch
    TexasMadeBiitch Bulan Yang lalu

    Ppl are fucking weird! Keep doing y'all and keep growing that empire! And sorry for Benny's loss. I just lost a tio so I know how that feels. Sending you guys positive vibes. ❤️

  • Beauty by Stephanie
    Beauty by Stephanie Bulan Yang lalu +481

    Just you standing up for your man and family makes you look even more classy and exactly y he fell in love with you in the first place. You both have every right to show what you wanna show on each other’s channels. Keep your head you guys will overcome this ❤🙏🏼

    • R 2 H
      R 2 H Bulan Yang lalu

      Here is the full clip : when i met dossi
      idclips.com/video/mCfYi7634rU/video.html

    • mireya vianey
      mireya vianey Bulan Yang lalu +5

      Periodddd

  • bby joanna
    bby joanna Bulan Yang lalu +5

    I completely agree with you, I’m sorry this even started it’s ridiculous. Sending love to you and your family ❤

  • The Doopa
    The Doopa Bulan Yang lalu +10

    I never seen this channel in my life. Have no idea why it's on my feed. Honestly I look up science stuff and nerd things and this is far from my demographic. First impression by looks, I'm guilty. I thought another girl with looks and no substance. Then I started hearing her talk. And was like who's Benny. So I skimmed through a couple videos and looked up Benny. A tatted up stocky fella. That's all I have to say, not one of the several random clips did I think anything negative about anyone I have seen. Only thing I think is yall drink too much. But I'm biased about alcohol because I been sober for a while.
    Yall are some cool people, I doubt I'll watch another one of your videos but I'll like this one. As an outsider, yall are alright.

  • Always 4got10
    Always 4got10 Bulan Yang lalu

    First of I love you both together you guys are amazing family ❤I see Benny been the best father to baby legend .. this people that are negative is because they got nothing better to do like if this crazy world didn't have enough ugliness out there that they jump on the internet to be ugly , I will never understand how or why people sit here and comment negative stuff on this videos if you got nothing better to say don't say anything, anyways love you guys keep doing you guys we here for it love you guys ❤

  • Meleena Barrios
    Meleena Barrios Bulan Yang lalu +25

    Nah fr.... im so sorry that you guys are going through this. A lot of people take so much shit out of context and really need to mind their own. You guys are the only one who knows what you guys are going through and people just feed of off these kind of responses. You guys are fine and owe no one an explanation to what you guys are doing. Keep going girl you're doing good and always put yourself and your beautiful family's health and mental health first. Love you guys

    • Emmy Turner
      Emmy Turner Bulan Yang lalu

      Why are you stroking the ego of this crybaby millionaire? You think she has problems? She puts her ass out there and she's the victim for people giving their opinion on her content? Get a grip. Your being manipulated by an individual of the upperclass. She makes money from playing on your admiration and group mantality. This creater is actual trash and a huge part of the problem.

  • Elsy Guevara
    Elsy Guevara Bulan Yang lalu +5

    You guys are the best parents & partners 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼💕 love you

  • Celinda Flores
    Celinda Flores Bulan Yang lalu +7

    It’s so crazy this has to be said even. But You go girl ❤. It’s 2022, having separate investments , accounts etc is normal!! The fact you guys support each other on your individual goals and accomplishments is goals. Wishing your family the best !! 🎉

  • jazzy
    jazzy Bulan Yang lalu

    We love you alo I’ve been watching you since you started IDclips and I’ve been watching you guys since the very beginning you guys have always been my favorites It’s hard having to see great people getting hate Please stay positive and bless you and your beautiful family🥲🥲🤍

  • Kedo
    Kedo Bulan Yang lalu +22

    This is what happens in my relationship. My man is misread by others when he is the sweetest, most giving person I’ve met in my life. People just point out the worst things based on how people react, their faces, etc. As long as you know in your heart.. including your family.. the reality...That’s all that matters! 💕

  • Evelyn Chavez
    Evelyn Chavez Bulan Yang lalu

    Love that you said something about it. Maybe people misunderstood, probably just concerned about you and your mental health but idk how people can be so mean. ☹️

  • Adaezebeauty
    Adaezebeauty Bulan Yang lalu +823

    I’m happy you addressed this. The way people are trying to paint Benny as a bad person is really sad. Now I see why people keep their relationship private.

    • Adaezebeauty
      Adaezebeauty Bulan Yang lalu

      @Jerika James if your cousin died you wouldn’t care about what floors you want I’m your house

    • Emmy Turner
      Emmy Turner Bulan Yang lalu

      What's even worse is millionaires convincing all of you regular people to feel pitty for them and make them richer. These people don't care about you and they are not upset about this they are happily counting their ad cents when the camera turns off.

    • Adriana&&Samuel
      Adriana&&Samuel Bulan Yang lalu

      I keep mines private now

    • Dario Reyes
      Dario Reyes Bulan Yang lalu +1

      @Adaezebeauty yesss👏🏻 thats literally what alondra just talked about 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️smhh

    • Swill
      Swill Bulan Yang lalu +4

      @Jerika James that may be true but if she wasn’t hurt by it why should you?

  • Elizabeth Garcia
    Elizabeth Garcia 14 hari yang lalu

    You never know what people are going through. Stayed strong!

  • A EM
    A EM Bulan Yang lalu +159

    😭Thank you Alondra for defending your partner !! I’m glad your sticking up for your man n putting people in their place girl !! You keep enjoying yalls blessing n keep supporting your man through this hard time for him 😢 I know how close Benny is to his family n losing a family member is never easy to begin with 🥺

  • Gabriella Rodriguez
    Gabriella Rodriguez Bulan Yang lalu +16

    I’ve noticed it become really bad lately but I feel like it’s the trolls because you’re true supporters would never 🫶🏼 love y’all!!! Keep thriving and growing together as a family! ❤

  • jaylene angela
    jaylene angela Bulan Yang lalu

    u making this video alone shows the strength within you & your relationship. people are mean & pick at little things to try and tear others down, don’t let them win 🤍

  • Noemi Arredondo
    Noemi Arredondo Bulan Yang lalu +433

    This is the true definition of STAND BY YOUR MAN!!! You tell them babygirl!!! Plus no need to explain yourself Mama's, you don't own anyone any explanation, you ppl are always going to make their own assumptions, just keep living y'all BEST lives.. Love you guy's!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  • Dayana Rivera
    Dayana Rivera Bulan Yang lalu +8

    That is so sad. I’ve watched you for years way before Benni and you got together, you definitely have grown so much! People don’t get he’s your back bone and he’s helped you so much! I wish you guys the best and hope all those bad vibes go away!!! Love you guys ❤

  • Marissa Hardin
    Marissa Hardin Bulan Yang lalu +13

    You have to stand up for your fam! Thank you for taking us along for the ride and sharing your lives with us! ♥️♥️♥️

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  • Life with Marissa
    Life with Marissa Bulan Yang lalu

    You know, Alandra, I admire and respect you, I was never want to be a part of this whole drama stuff, what you and Benny have as strong, and whatever personal things, you guys go, throw on a day to day basis, we see what you guys show us, that doesn’t mean that we know your entire lives, I don’t know when people are going to understand that concept, I honestly feel like a lot of people hate on your relationship, because they don’t have it as good as you guys do, Sorry, might not sound very nice, but it’s just facts. You both deserve respect, and to just be happy, I’m really sorry to hear about Benny‘s loss, my prayers and hugs are with him and his family, and I wish you both the best.💜💜💜💜

  • prisccyyy 17
    prisccyyy 17 Bulan Yang lalu

    Yassss! Protect yo man mama ! 👏🏼 Benny is such a good man , I can’t believe the hate he gets. Like for what??? Some of y’all just mad cause you can’t get a man like Benny 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Benny , if you read this I’m sorry people are so rude. You’re such a good dude & don’t listen to these haters. & my condolences 🥺💕

  • LifeWithTanya
    LifeWithTanya Bulan Yang lalu +359

    Finally it’s been addressed, I felt so bad for Benny. So many people coming for him don’t even know what happens behind closed doors. Be better DO BETTER YALL! Stop the hate comments . We know nothing about them only what they chose to show us !!!!

  • Alondra Dueñas
    Alondra Dueñas Bulan Yang lalu

    I love both of you ❤️ keep ur head up. Ignore the hate baby girl, you guys are doing amazing ✨ and Benny si se Mira que está enamorado de ti eso no hay duda !!!!! God bless you guys

  • Marie Mayy
    Marie Mayy Bulan Yang lalu

    ALONDRA!!!!!!!❤❤❤
    I know it's hard having people hate on y'all. Especially everything you guys accomplished together. Stay positive and keep on doing y'all. Don't the all the bad comments get to y'all. If y'all start seeing any more, start to block them. You need any of that. Especially how good everything is going for y'all. Just remember about the people who are there for y'all and the fans who actually support both of y'all ❤️❤️❤️💕💕 those are the people who matter!!! REMEMBER THAT!!!!!
    I'm so proud of everything y'all are doing together as a family. I look up to y'all both

  • Jesse D.
    Jesse D. Bulan Yang lalu +5

    Benny is such a sweetheart & has treated Alondra so good since day one.
    If you don’t like an influencer then don’t watch them. It’s that simple.
    You never know what someone is going through when the cameras are off.
    I’m so proud of you for purchasing your home. It’s such an exciting moment. Don’t let these rude disgusting humans ruin such a good moment & accomplishment.
    Sending so much love & positivity your way ♥️

  • savannah blues
    savannah blues Bulan Yang lalu

    i’m sorry you guys are having to deal with all of this. sending you guys love 🤎 keep your heads up. people are cruel!!

  • Andii Paz
    Andii Paz Bulan Yang lalu +589

    People forget that 20 minutes of a video is nothing compared to 24 hours that a day has!! Love you both❤️

    • BlackJack
      BlackJack Bulan Yang lalu

      Oh shit SNL cout chasen 😂

    • Lulue
      Lulue Bulan Yang lalu +1

      B and A FOREVER 🌹

    • CR
      CR Bulan Yang lalu +19

      If what we see in those 20 minutes is Benny acting miserable & bitter now imagine what he actually acts like throughout the day when the camera isnt recording…

    • Nоt RiскrоII 🅥
      Nоt RiскrоII 🅥 Bulan Yang lalu +3

      Finally it's here the clip you all wanted:
      idclips.com/video/jhTTxdBKSyI/video.html

  • Cristal Velasquez
    Cristal Velasquez Bulan Yang lalu

    I love you so much Alo!! You can definitely see Benny is very much supportive in your little family, just as much as you support him! ❤ Y’all are everything these haters ain’t and that’s why they put their unnecessary comments. You guys deserve to prosper as individuals as well in order to build an empire as a couple! I love you guys so much and keep grinding mama ❣️😘
    You guys got this ☺️

  • Britts Lifestyle
    Britts Lifestyle Bulan Yang lalu

    Your defending your family mama! Y’all are a beautiful family, y’all look so happy! Fck the haters!
    Y’all have come along waysss and it’s awesome to see y’all grow as a familia 🫶🏽🙏❤️ momma bear 🐻 take them paws 🐾 out! 😅

  • JerricaLynn
    JerricaLynn Bulan Yang lalu

    Ppl are so nasty, I love watching you and Benny as a family. Sending you guys love and strength ❤️

  • Joselyn Tapia
    Joselyn Tapia Bulan Yang lalu

    Yass girl I love how you stay keeping that positivity. You have really evolved on the hate comments people will try to push those who have more down but you keep striving. I send nothing but positivity and love for your fam. You give so much helpful advice for those who struggle with mental health I love it. Keep doing you boo 💚

  • Leilani Salgado
    Leilani Salgado Bulan Yang lalu +384

    Y’all bring back that energy yall had for them in the beginning of their relationship!!!! They’ve grown and developed beautifully together and there’s no need to feed hate into their love! 💯

    • Miss Barbz
      Miss Barbz Bulan Yang lalu

      @astridh2009 it came off as hate for alondra. People were defending her and telling her she deserved better. I get when someone like Benny is ignorant. Perhaps they already talked about it behind closed doors & she said so herself it did come off as insensitive but sounds like they worked through it so she wants everyone else to forget it. Some people did say really mean things which just wasn’t necessary I get that

    • astridh2009
      astridh2009 Bulan Yang lalu

      @Miss Barbz maybe because she knows where he was coming from, sometimes we understand our significant other better than strangers on the internet? Maybe he hasn’t experienced mental health or knows anything about it.. its better to educate instead of judging and leaving hate

    • Fab
      Fab Bulan Yang lalu +3

      Ummm well their energy and him trying is gone 😅

    • Miss Barbz
      Miss Barbz Bulan Yang lalu +6

      People started the hate when she talked about her mental health and being depressed & he disregarded her feelings and said “what do u have to be depressed for you have everything, money” & she just looked uncomfortable. That’s what’s going on. I’m surprised she doesn’t know that’s what started it.

  • L Shamon
    L Shamon Bulan Yang lalu

    Benny is the sweetest most tender most kind and loving father I have ever seen on a IDclips channel or just in the entertainment business itself. A great father, doting dad and a wonderful boyfriend as Alondra is an amazing girlfriend. This is the hate that brings people down leave this couple alone!

  • Alejandra Zepeda
    Alejandra Zepeda Bulan Yang lalu

    Hey girl I know it’s completely hard to address this and just to come up here and talk about this is very person so I just want to let you know that you are strong and resilient. Aside from all this you are a human being that has her own life with her family just as we all do. Your are honestly such an amazing person. Unfortunately, just like you mentioned, there will be people troll and want to get a tradition towards you. These people are so bored with their life that since they are hiding behind a screen they just type nonsense. Remember, they don’t know you or your life that you don’t showcase online. They just see a little glimpse. These people are irrelevant and non existent to you girl. Keep your head up. Be happy with your little family and what matters is only you and your partner and your son that’s it. You got this girl!!!!!

  • Amber Garza
    Amber Garza Bulan Yang lalu

    No matter what there is always ALWAYS going to be haters! Especially the ones that don’t have nothing going for them. You and Benny are great for each other and are great parents. You keep doing you girl!! ❤

  • Nydia Gonzalez
    Nydia Gonzalez Bulan Yang lalu

    Keep striving girl don’t let the negativity get to you … I truly believe Benny is a great human being … keep living , blessings to you all xoxoxo 🙏🏻🤍🙌🏻🫶🏻

  • Vanessa Fierro
    Vanessa Fierro Bulan Yang lalu +211

    Proud of u for speaking up for yourself and your family 🫶🏻😇

  • Life as Cenia
    Life as Cenia Bulan Yang lalu

    You go girl!!! Was waiting for you to make a video like this….Exactly stand up for your man and family! You guys are awesome love watching both of y’all.

  • Myriam De La Rosa
    Myriam De La Rosa Bulan Yang lalu

    We love y’all Alondra!! Please don’t stop making videos. You and Benny are my favorite IDclips couple and always make my day with your videos. You guys always put a smile on my face. I’m sorry the negative comments have gotten to you but just stay positive and keep in mind that your true supporters are still here ❤ congratulations on all of your achievements 🎉

  • Ruby Serenity
    Ruby Serenity Bulan Yang lalu +1

    I love how transparent you are!! Thank you for discussing this! All couples goes through ups and downs and everyone does not see what you guys do 24/7 so I totally get what you're saying! God Bless Alondra & Your husband Benny.

  • Nicole Johnson
    Nicole Johnson Bulan Yang lalu

    I have been watching both of you since before you were together all I have seen is the glow up. Everyone that makes rude comments probably do not understand the struggle of parenting or life in general. Everyone goes through things and sometimes couples fight or argue its completely normal and no one's business anyways watch the videos if you like them or don't if you do not like them it's really not complicated. You have a beautiful family and if you all are happy that's all that matters 💗

  • Yessica Torres
    Yessica Torres Bulan Yang lalu +181

    i’m sorry people are so cruel and miserable ☹️ they take a piece of a video and SWEAR they figured out your life. so proud of you and your little family ❤️ i pray you guys keep having the blessings you guys deserve 💗🫶🏼

    • Nоt RiскrоII 🅥
      Nоt RiскrоII 🅥 Bulan Yang lalu +1

      Finally it's here the clip you all wanted:
      idclips.com/video/jhTTxdBKSyI/video.html

  • Gladis Chavez
    Gladis Chavez Bulan Yang lalu

    You’re such a good soul Alo and Benny definitely treats you like a queen!! I wish you guys so much more success and love you guys are the cutest!! Its not hard to be kind but there’s just so much hating people🙄
    And girl i cant wait for my hubby and me to have our separate investments as we should and every marriage/couple family like you said. Keep going girl you got this💗

  • Emy Tafoya
    Emy Tafoya Bulan Yang lalu +1

    I love you guys!! I’m so happy you can be individually successful and together creating an empire❤️. Keep growing. You both got this! I’m here for it. 🙏🏽✨✨

  • Aracely Figueredo
    Aracely Figueredo Bulan Yang lalu

    I feel so bad that people are being so mean to Benny, and I really hope he’s not taking it to heart, I’m sure he’s already going through a lot. People just love to make something out of nothing. Love watching the both of you guys videos ❤️

  • Zuleyma Munoz Montiel
    Zuleyma Munoz Montiel Bulan Yang lalu +2

    Girl you and your beautiful family keep thriving. Whether or not you’re in A relationship where there’s competition no one else should care but y’all . Me and my husband compete against one another in who can do better in saving money, career, etc it’s not a way of discouraging one another but pushing each other to be better. Everybody has different perspectives and will take things differently but that is their opinion because they don’t actually live with you or Benny so they will never understand how y’all carry one another. I’m proud of you and your family. Keep your head up girl ❤

  • Catherine Femenia
    Catherine Femenia Bulan Yang lalu +165

    Getting the home under your name is HUGE! You should be SOOO proud! From what I see & what you show us I love how independent you both are not only as a couple but as people !! Like you guys are a family but you guys are also Alo & Benny.. you guys also can have your own goals for yourselves ! That will obviously benefit you both as a family ! So I understand ! & again about the home.. 2 is better than 1! So you wanting to get 1 & him wanting 1 as well is great! & at the end of the day YOUR DECISION!!

  • Star Hernandez
    Star Hernandez Bulan Yang lalu

    As long as you two know what’s up, that’s all that matters. ❤ you two are a TEAM until other wise. 🎉❤ congratulations! 🙏🏼❤️

  • Gabby Bae
    Gabby Bae Bulan Yang lalu

    Keep your heads up love y’all are amazing ❤ que dios les de muchas fuerzas

  • Baudilia Gonzalez
    Baudilia Gonzalez Bulan Yang lalu +11

    Aww! You don’t have to explain! As long as you two are happy that’s all that matters! Also my husband of 8 years is an Aquarius and I’m a Scorpio, we have different acts of love/ love language!

  • Irais valdez
    Irais valdez Bulan Yang lalu

    You guys got this
    You guys are my favorite couple
    Stay strong ❤️🥰

  • Juanita Perez
    Juanita Perez Bulan Yang lalu

    Keep your head up and don’t listen to the negativity ❤

  • jazmin castillo
    jazmin castillo Bulan Yang lalu

    yassss girllll !!!!! Im glad you’re speaking up and you have EVERY right !
    People expect him to be smiling none stop like y’all are a normal couple .
    Like you said he is strong minded and he deals with it a different way . Ppl are weird !
    So happy for y’all ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and keep posting

  • Yesenia Anguiano
    Yesenia Anguiano Bulan Yang lalu

    Congrats 🎉 you guys can’t wait what the future holds for you guys! ❤

  • katherine o
    katherine o Bulan Yang lalu

    I love y’all!!! Idk where all these haters came out from but damn I have seen so much hate but most likely they are kids and immature people and they don’t know how grown adults relationships work lol obviously I see how you both put in the work and I’m sure In closed doors you guys are very affectionate and there’s no reason to be all up on each other on camera and then closed doors not! People will always twist everything! I hope you both are doing well and head up high. Be happy and celebrate all your ups no matter what cause people hate when you’re winning so just show them nothing is stopping you!!! ❤love y’all!

  • GG
    GG Bulan Yang lalu +32

    People are addressing it because the vibe between you, or even that’s being portrayed in your video, is bad. From Benny seemingly having no energy, towards the tone deaf comments he made about your depression. It’s clear something is going on with him & instead of taking time to fix it or even get him help, y’all continue to make videos & let US see this weird energy for us to make our own conclusions. I understand though, you influencers have to pay your bills to keep up your lifestyles, but to act like everything is fine as if we can’t see how low vibrational you guys seem is a little weird. Just like your job is to post, we support that job by watching & having our own opinions.

  • Jessica Lopez
    Jessica Lopez Bulan Yang lalu

    Alo I support you and Benny ❣️
    Don’t listen to these hating ass comments and some people take everything the wrong way and it’s your life and you don’t have to explain yourself to anybody!
    So to the haters stop acting like your shit don’t stink it’s annoying af 🙄
    You can clearly see she’s good and happy

  • Jessica
    Jessica Bulan Yang lalu

    Focus on the positive 🧡 Congratulations on your new home and tending at number 10!! 🥳

  • Allie K
    Allie K Bulan Yang lalu +18

    YOURE TRENDING AGAIN GIRLY 🎉❤ don’t let these lame ass haters get to u, they hating bc they’re jealous- real recognizes real so please keep going with youtube, we love you!

  • Maria Cruz
    Maria Cruz Bulan Yang lalu

    Love you and Benny! So proud of you and all of your accomplishments! Keep it moving y’all are doing a great job❤

  • Genesisxox29 _
    Genesisxox29 _ Bulan Yang lalu +157

    Exactly, well said Babygirl. People will never understand couples finances. That is something that is discussed privately! Congratulations to you and Benny for this HUGE accomplishment. Even though YOU bought your OWN house under your OWN name doesn’t mean HE wasn’t supporting you financially. I think a lot of us are too fast to assume things and judge other peoples situations without knowing facts. Assumptions are the worst! Never assume anything before knowing the facts. Anyone reading this comment should read “The Four Agreements”, it may change your life 💚. Love You Alo. I wish I could give you a big girl hug 💕

    • Monica Hernandez
      Monica Hernandez Bulan Yang lalu

      OMGGGGGGGG, I love that book… definitely changes your outlook 🥰🥰🥰🫶🏽

  • cnmmd qiuoo
    cnmmd qiuoo Bulan Yang lalu

    and I support the decisions you both feel is right for your family. Sending so much love Alo!

  • Mayra Retana
    Mayra Retana Bulan Yang lalu

    Yes girl! Defend your man’s! That’s your family & at the end of the day no one will ever understand nor be happy for anything you do for them. Love ya!

  • Tiffany Sugey G.
    Tiffany Sugey G. Bulan Yang lalu

    I honestly don’t why there has been hate comments, I’ve been watching every video you and Benny post and there is nothing wrong. You guys are always making me laugh and just the vibe in general is always positive. Honestly you guys are one of the few realist IDclipsrs out there that don’t try to hard for people to like you guys. Like I can always relate to your guys videos. Keep your head up queen! Sending positive vibes your way🫶🏼 I see you killing it in the game! I’m so proud of both of you and everything you guys have accomplished together🤍🤍 Love you guys!

  • Bonita Gordita y Chingona
    Bonita Gordita y Chingona Bulan Yang lalu

    Sending love to you both ❤

  • Leili Espindola
    Leili Espindola Bulan Yang lalu +112

    Its so sad how instead of keeping shit positive, everyone throws negative shit at you guys. I love you guys together ❤ may you guys continue to grow! LOVE YOU ALO 🫶🏻

    • Nоt RiскrоII 🅥
      Nоt RiскrоII 🅥 Bulan Yang lalu +1

      This is the clip u all looking for:
      idclips.com/video/9lK0duuKHKk/video.html

  • Irene Cruz
    Irene Cruz Bulan Yang lalu

    The fact you have to make a video like this for the haters pisses me off, there will always be someone always having to say negative shit to people they don't even know, I love you and Benny since day one and so proud of who you both are today 💗 wishing you both the best for the future ❤️

  • Aliyah Marie
    Aliyah Marie Bulan Yang lalu

    Love you Alo you are a wonderful partner and prayers and love to Benny during this time 🤍 people tend to run with the ideas they create and not realize they don’t see everything. Congratulations on your new home and I hope you both will have time to celebrate and acknowledge this huge accomplishment 🤍 you both are deserving of so much good in the world and I love your content it makes my day and I love your family ✨

  • Marlene Rodriguez
    Marlene Rodriguez Bulan Yang lalu

    Alondra I love you guys, you don’t have to explain anything to anyone. Benny and you are great people you can see it. Your both motivate each other you can see it. Stay strong girl! ❤

  • Regdu Geht
    Regdu Geht Bulan Yang lalu

    and I support the decisions you both feel is right for your family. Sending so much love Alo!

  • Brenda Gabriel
    Brenda Gabriel Bulan Yang lalu +282

    You don’t have to explain yourself to social media, you know how much Benny has helped you and people will always have opinions but only YOU know what’s truly going on

    • Erika Diaz
      Erika Diaz Bulan Yang lalu

      Sometimes you just have too. I'm sure that if someone is making lies about you, you're going to explain yourself right?

    • JSJ Busta
      JSJ Busta Bulan Yang lalu +4

      Nah let her speak! Like she said in the video she needs to defend her man. I would’ve done the same. And I bet Benny was happy that he has a girl like Alo :)

    • Nоt RiскrоII 🅥
      Nоt RiскrоII 🅥 Bulan Yang lalu +2

      Finally it's here the clip you all wanted:
      idclips.com/video/jhTTxdBKSyI/video.html

  • Karen Mejia
    Karen Mejia Bulan Yang lalu

    Prayers and positive vibes to you Alo and your beautiful family. It’s sad that you have to make a video because of hateful people. We are sadly in a world that is more cruel than kind and some people are just dark and love to destroy joyous people. Keep your head up and live your life to the fullest love. ❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • Alyssa Landeros
    Alyssa Landeros Bulan Yang lalu +1

    Benny is the best! Alo has a great man taking care of her. I love how you handled this and addressed it some people just cant stand to see other people happy! Sending love to you 3!!!❤

  • Bella
    Bella Bulan Yang lalu +1

    People are gonna hate, there’s no avoidance in that in life. Even you you post your life with us on social media, you also have every right to not share everything so personal with us! No one knows your relationship like you and Benny. That being said, haters have no right to think they know you and your relationship! Feel whatever you have to feel and always know your supporters love and understand you! Hate can be extremely tough but know you and Benny and the baby have all the love towards you guys! We love you!

  • Odett G
    Odett G Bulan Yang lalu +1

    👏👏Yes girl it's good you said something 👏 I get mad when I see negative comments about IDclipsrs like if we all are seeing your video I'm like "Dude you don't even belong here" Bye bye-bye those people just don't have nothing to do like mostly the females 😒 don't we have to be more respectful like a dicho of Mexican mom "Ponte cocinar o lavar los dishes" LOL 😅 tell that to the haters

  • nohemi diaz
    nohemi diaz Bulan Yang lalu +199

    Smh this breaks my heart, you can see all the pain in her eyes and voice 💔 I say this all the time ppl never really know what anybody is going through and yet they still go and judge… ppl please do better 😪 There’s been a lot of times when I’ve been hella down like I can’t do this anymore kind of down & when I’m around ppl I seem like the most happiest person… be nice cuz y’all never know when your comment could be someone else’s last straw.

  • Leticia Fuentes
    Leticia Fuentes Bulan Yang lalu

    You guys are amazing! I hope the haters back off, sending blessings to your family!!!

  • kadi jomi
    kadi jomi Bulan Yang lalu

    and I support the decisions you both feel is right for your family. Sending so much love Alo!

  • Alyssa Ybarra
    Alyssa Ybarra Bulan Yang lalu

    We love y’all screw the haters 🫶🏼y’all keep posting and loving each other !! Don’t let the haters get to u !

  • Nikki Martinez
    Nikki Martinez Bulan Yang lalu

    U always keep ur head up girl I love watching u and Benny videos screw what people have to say their like that do to the negative stuff in their life u continue doing u boo and always focus on ur fam screw the haters ❤

  • Evy Casanas
    Evy Casanas Bulan Yang lalu

    Praying for peace and love! Stay strong 💪 you two are a blessed and beautiful family. You were both blessed with a gorgeous gift of life…your little bundle of joy who’s growing so fast because you both take such great care of him. Always remember that your love for each other out ways any hater that is ignorant! Love ❤️ you guys!! 🥰🙌🙏🏼