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Asian Parent Punishments: Emotional Damage

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    Steven He
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Komentar • 14 133

  • Steven He
    Steven He  3 bulan yang lalu +31078

    Every parent taking notes in the back📝

    • Tyler Rothstein
      Tyler Rothstein 6 jam yang lalu

      No one can

    • Saharsh1223
      Saharsh1223 5 hari yang lalu


    • YourGachagal_Gabz
      YourGachagal_Gabz 7 hari yang lalu

      haha lol

    • Niall Jacob
      Niall Jacob 7 hari yang lalu

      @Bangla Anime project maybe, but for some of us that would be considered joking about

    • Bangla Anime project
      Bangla Anime project 7 hari yang lalu +1

      @Niall Jacob Impossible you guys and your parents are way to understanding for this. As a Bangladeshi
      i can relate to this without even trying. Lol

  • Just Some Guy without a Mustache
    Just Some Guy without a Mustache 3 bulan yang lalu +62831

    I think we can all agree that Steven He's way of saying "emotional damage" is so iconic at this point.

    • bandu
      bandu 7 hari yang lalu


    • Heinz Fritz
      Heinz Fritz 16 hari yang lalu

      And he's using it damn right for promotion. Smart guy, probably because he's asian

    • Ligma
      Ligma 19 hari yang lalu

      u here
      u there
      ur everywhere

    • Crookshanks on gacha
      Crookshanks on gacha  Bulan Yang lalu

      this meme even made it onto my friend's youtube channel. we (the editors) were like 'EMOTIONAL DAMAGE' all episode.

  • venisontron
    venisontron 22 hari yang lalu +436

    "Because children don't have money, they can't think of a way to get out of the situation." still kills me every time

    • Joseph Byrne
      Joseph Byrne Hari Yang lalu

      "Very effective."

    • Julian Hayes
      Julian Hayes 3 hari yang lalu

      @Yuxuan Huang but that's when I develop a really strong desire for cookies, my means of escape and to munch on whilst trying to write essays.

    • Yuxuan Huang
      Yuxuan Huang 4 hari yang lalu

      @Julian Hayes WHY? I learned to exit the entrance empty-handed at 10. WHAT A FAILURE ! (just kidding) But it was quite embarrassing back then

    • Julian Hayes
      Julian Hayes 18 hari yang lalu +10

      That's why to this day when I enter the supermarket and turns out I don't need to get something, I still buy something so that I can leave

    • Liz Parilla
      Liz Parilla 18 hari yang lalu +1


  • Sally
    Sally 29 hari yang lalu +213

    “It’s not in aisle 8.”
    I completely lost it. I was laughing so hard that I had to skip back a few times because I kept missing lines from laughing so hard 🤣

    • babamaude
      babamaude 2 hari yang lalu

      Me too 😂😂😂😂

  • errol kim
    errol kim 2 bulan yang lalu +546

    That tool scene in the garage is my childhood in a nutshell. I used to just start panicking and crying in seconds....the thing I'd been sent for was never there. Or if it was , I knew it by a different name.
    Emotional Damage ensued....and it's with me to this day.

    • Kat Azodnem
      Kat Azodnem 2 hari yang lalu

      Whenever my grandma tells me to get something i just hope that what I got was right 😭

    • errol kim
      errol kim 5 hari yang lalu

      Cheers Steve. Unfortunately my dad says that under 50k likes for my comment is FAILURE and I need to find a new outlet for my EMOTIONAL DAMAGE. Hang on he's introducing me to the neighbours BRB

    • ForeverTya21
      ForeverTya21 8 hari yang lalu

      Same here. I was dealt emotional damage this way at the hands of my grandmother lol🤣🤣

    • I am Ghast36
      I am Ghast36 21 hari yang lalu +3

      Nonono, the best part of this is when you were looking in that particular spot the thing you were looking for wasn't there and then when they go to get it, VOILA its in their hands and they call you blind.
      Emotional damage

    • anjing babi
      anjing babi 25 hari yang lalu +1

      Childhood? Now i am an adult with kids. My dad still orders me to do menial task like this when i visit.
      And he still gives vague instructions like in the video.

  • jarod s
    jarod s 11 hari yang lalu +33

    "The unfairness adds extra flavor to the emotional damage"
    He’s so right

  • PrizMatex
    PrizMatex 3 bulan yang lalu +20675

    This man owns the word *Emotional Damage* and no one can prove me wrong.

    • Data Turashvili
      Data Turashvili 14 jam yang lalu


    • Catslayer
      Catslayer Hari Yang lalu

      He does

    • InsantCore
      InsantCore 2 hari yang lalu

      @chachedore its not a catchphrase, its a *running gag*

    • Galaxy Games
      Galaxy Games 2 hari yang lalu

      @Nanny Nanny thank you.

  • McKenzie Morris
    McKenzie Morris 15 hari yang lalu +27

    I'm not even Asian and I can definitely relate to most of this (especially the reverse grocery line) LMAO 🤣🤣🤣! Asian parents and single black moms are pretty similar.

  • Ellen Cooper
    Ellen Cooper 7 hari yang lalu +57

    Eres un ídolo 4.FO/LIAZELT siempre en mi corazón ❤🇺🇸
    1 ( hermosa ) 9.7/10 2 ( elecciones ) 9.5/10
    3 ( culturales ) 9.3/10 Son unos de los mejoret conciertos

    • TOCB
      TOCB Jam Yang lalu

      @Epicjeong ye

    • Epicjeong
      Epicjeong 2 jam yang lalu

      bot moment

  • Emelin
    Emelin 28 hari yang lalu +56

    as someone with an asian mom, i can say that i did get emotional damage
    to this day, she still tells me to do something in such a vague way, then gets angry at me when i ask about it- she always goes "be more flexible!" or "use your brain!"

    • N Fels
      N Fels 7 hari yang lalu +3

      Yo, stepmom, the baby's a bit sick. Snotty and heaving a bit, but should be fine, the doctor had a look at says it's just a cold.
      -Do the therapy!
      The what?
      -Do the therapy for baby fever!
      What therapy precisely?
      -The therapy of course! Come on, are you dim! That baby is suffering! Get to it!
      At least I get to blink in confusion with my "Mandarin.exe has stopped working. Dunno what you're saying, lol"-look, but I really feel for my wife at times like that.

  • deezworld
    deezworld 28 hari yang lalu +67

    It's funny how strict parents of different countries and races are so similar haha. I'm African, and can relate. However, "emotional damage" is stuck in my head and I can't stop laughing. Nice one bro...very effective 😁

  • Carlos Morales
    Carlos Morales 3 bulan yang lalu +8195

    I love how he doesn't even refer to his son as son but as his "failure", lol.

    • manoman0
      manoman0 18 jam yang lalu +1

      That had me!

    • +*ãürå*+
      +*ãürå*+ 18 hari yang lalu

      @Steven He lmao 💀💀

    • Carlos Morales
      Carlos Morales 18 hari yang lalu

      @Joe I mean, that's pretty obvious, that's not what I'm commenting on...

    • Joe
      Joe 18 hari yang lalu

      But he refers to stenve

    • Young_NoBle Zeze
      Young_NoBle Zeze 26 hari yang lalu


  • Lauren Gonzalez
    Lauren Gonzalez Hari Yang lalu +30

    Concepts, Perception, Levels, -Visuals- , Realism, Genuineness, Vybez, Kickback. *Here for it!!!!!!*
    Es muy difícil escoger una *4.Fo/Hotxmilf* como la *favorita* del ámore, pero está siempre simplemente es otro nivel, 💕
    -Gracias Benito- ❤.
    Son unos de los mejores conciertos

  • Yukiko Fujiwara
    Yukiko Fujiwara 15 hari yang lalu +16

    I'm just prepping my notes here. My father's choice form of _emotional damage_ was to not speak to me for a few days when he was reminded I was a failure. Is it possible to combine these techniques, or do I need to be a board-certified asian to pull it off?

  • DarkRed'sRevenge
    DarkRed'sRevenge 2 bulan yang lalu +379

    1:07 literally happened to me a few days ago. I took both phillips and flat head of the screwdrivers specifically because I didn't want to get roasted. Took 2 sizes small and large.
    Still got called useless because we didn't own the correct size
    *I can guarantee the emotional damage*

    • N Fels
      N Fels 7 hari yang lalu +1

      Protip: For father's day you buy an electrical screwdriver with a full set of bits.
      Then you've a legit excuse to always bring the full set and you couldn't get it wrong even if you wanted to.

    • Viona fernandes
      Viona fernandes Bulan Yang lalu +3

      @Ken Feng omg 😭😭😭 accurate af

    • Jinsi JH K
      Jinsi JH K Bulan Yang lalu +10

      "This is why you get no job and live in my house no allowance this month"

    • Rithvik Muthyalapati
      Rithvik Muthyalapati Bulan Yang lalu +14

      @Ken Feng And then they add the "If you talk back one more time, I will kick you out of the house"

    • Gloria A. Oquendo
      Gloria A. Oquendo Bulan Yang lalu


  • Lina Park Art
    Lina Park Art 17 hari yang lalu +24

    Omg, this is so relatable. My dad would ask me for a bucket, so I brought him one. Then he said, 'no no no.. the one to scoop the water'. So I brought him a water scooper. And then he went, 'No, why you so stupid?! That thing that sweeps the water!'.... he was looking for the squeegee floor wiper. *mind blown* 💀

    • BenchART
      BenchART 3 hari yang lalu

      @Lina Park Art Good point, never thought of that
      Anyway... "Son?"
      I'm 32..
      ___Died from emotional damage___

    • Lina Park Art
      Lina Park Art 3 hari yang lalu

      @BenchART lol, OK son, here's a tip for you. I'm equally lost with parents but in terms of female matters, this is the exact translation.
      1) when she gives you vague indications of what she wants, it probably means she's not sure what she really wants yet. BUT, she has an idea of what she wants.
      2) when you bring her the thing you think she wants. She is now sure that is not what she wants. This is now your cue to ask her what she really wants 😂.
      All the best, my fellow emotionally damaged friend.

    • BenchART
      BenchART 3 hari yang lalu +1

      Shit, I'm Portuguese and even today my GF gives me vague indications of what she wants, and then I take her something and she says that it's not that what she wants :D
      Even my parents used to do stuff like that to me all the time.
      Now all of this makes sense why I lose my patiente quickly when this type of situations happen to me.
      All this people have been applying a very effective EMOTIONAL DAMAGE against me.

    • Lina Park Art
      Lina Park Art 6 hari yang lalu +2

      @Andrew A hahah emotional damage indeed 😂

  • Simplistic
    Simplistic 3 bulan yang lalu +2531

    The emotional damage move is very powerful. No amount of self-confidence or therapy will ever stop it.

  • Anna Karo
    Anna Karo 3 hari yang lalu +1

    I remember how I was "coincidentally" doing homework whenever dad was repairing anything, so my brother had to take that emotional damage alone. But reverse grocery line is my childhood trauma.

  • Joe Bloggs
    Joe Bloggs Bulan Yang lalu +24

    I suffered emotional damage and takes me some time to get over it. Now you have helped me realise this is an effect from being a failure. Thanks Steven He

  • KittiezGamingYT
    KittiezGamingYT 25 hari yang lalu +20

    im already dying at the part where "steven's dad" is complaining about the light moving around "starting a disco" XD

  • nyaffein
    nyaffein 2 bulan yang lalu +39

    This is so true loll... I remember when my mom used to go to another aisle at the grocery store and I was 6 years old at the time. So, I lost her at the moment because the department store was so big. I have a little sister who was 3 and when she realized that mum wasn't there, she cried. I tried my best as the eldest to found someone who could help me found mom, so I got to the information center by myself with my sister in hand then mum come pick us up after finished buying her groceries 😂 that makes my mum thinks I'm no longer a failure since I'm not kidnapped and cried at the time

  • Kovid Ghiya
    Kovid Ghiya 3 bulan yang lalu +8769

    Fun fact Steven's dad was probably a failure to Steven's grandad. It's every Asian kids legacy. To be a FAILURE.

    • Susana A.
      Susana A. 25 hari yang lalu

      ​@John Yves Tan The parents themselves aren't EVEN high qualities, therefore, they project all their failures on their kids. EMOTIONAL DAMAGE.

    • Peter Yip
      Peter Yip Bulan Yang lalu

      5000 years of hereditary failure, that’s a LOT of Emotional Damage!

    • Bubbly Makamae
      Bubbly Makamae Bulan Yang lalu


    • A. S.
      A. S. Bulan Yang lalu +1

      @Mokster Destroying a child's self esteem, making them lose a needed sense of security that they need from their parents and creating lifelong trauma is child abuse, not love. A lot of the comments left by people here is classic abuse and it was completely unnecessary for any of their parents to do this to their children.

    • Trinity
      Trinity Bulan Yang lalu +1


  • Moku Freeman
    Moku Freeman 2 bulan yang lalu +32

    I remember working with my father in law and we were inflating a tire, he told me to tell him when it was at 40 PSI so I told him when it got there, and he told me to keep going until 45, then 50 and I was like Uhhh...should we stop it? and he said keep going, and then I just backed away right before it popped the compressor hose off, I then got yelled at for not stopping it at 40 PSI.
    Emotional Damage.

  • Sakshi Shyama
    Sakshi Shyama 11 hari yang lalu +7

    That tiny " they all have handles 🥺" had me wheezing lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Mrs. Petra-san
    Mrs. Petra-san 2 bulan yang lalu +22

    When you said the technique of leaving the child in the line for the register I remembered my mom doing that to me always, because she remembered something in the last minute xD

  • Emma Jean
    Emma Jean 12 hari yang lalu +17

    The legend of Likeex.Uno -snowquen's- is my idol. Hes the person I aspire to be, hes my light of day.

  • Jane Andrei Matila
    Jane Andrei Matila 3 bulan yang lalu +9390

    "you said hold it low!"
    "not as low as your IQ"
    this cracks me up every time LMAO

    • LK
      LK 21 hari yang lalu

      @chozzzy he’s Cantonese my guy, and he specifically once said “he’s abc” American born Chinese

    • Alex Chan
      Alex Chan Bulan Yang lalu

      yeah made me die

    • Games
      Games Bulan Yang lalu +2

      E M O T I N A L D A M A G E

  • online-v
    online-v Bulan Yang lalu +28

    As an Asian the flashlight one is one of the things I did about 29 times each time I adjusted it was apparently not right.
    The one where Steven got the groceries was just what I did to myself by accident as a kid

  • Mi’s workspace
    Mi’s workspace 3 hari yang lalu +1

    The hold the light is so true, I got so much scoldings just yesterday when my dad was fixing the switches. Whats with asian dads doing everything by their own, they think they are AI robot or something

  • Angry Juice
    Angry Juice Hari Yang lalu

    Can we all agree that this man has the right to coin the word emotional damage

  • Sick Student IRL
    Sick Student IRL 2 bulan yang lalu +103

    As funny and sarcastic as this video, I genuinely hope every parents who watched this will stop or never did any of these. It's terrible...
    Also this is REAL comedy depicting asian cultures on raising a child🤣

    • Sick Student IRL
      Sick Student IRL 24 hari yang lalu

      @Gareth Tucker lmao 🤣

    • Hecate Aurelia
      Hecate Aurelia Bulan Yang lalu +1

      My mom laughs about doing all these things 🥲

    • Gareth Tucker
      Gareth Tucker 2 bulan yang lalu +6

      Bad parents: taking notes on how to improve
      Good parents: wondering why some people even bother having children if their goal is to do this.

  • TimeBucks
    TimeBucks 3 bulan yang lalu +2979

    This is so accurate

  • Daisy Crazy
    Daisy Crazy 13 hari yang lalu +1

    this is honestly so true in my family.... and in most families lol

  • Jay The Human
    Jay The Human 2 bulan yang lalu +2

    I remember when my older bro showed me your channel a couple years ago. God I feel stupid for not subbing sooner.
    God bless Steven.
    You are a comedy god, draped in wrappings of comedy gold.
    *You are the cure to emotional damage.*

  • Sixx
    Sixx 6 hari yang lalu

    I watch this series all the time I can’t wait for the next one😂

  • Navnit Kumar
    Navnit Kumar 5 hari yang lalu

    I was my dad's choir boy growing up. He fancied himself a fixer, imagining that he could fix anything around the house without hiring a specialist because he had grown up working in for mechanics and electricians and plumbers and the like. The light thing always happened only the verbal chastising was much more venom laced. Meant to cut deep, true emotional damage that might require therapy but in truth, it becomes something you have to bury deep inside yourself to only examine when you feel safe if you ever try to examine it anyway.
    I ended up being like him a little, even though I hated him, I also fancied myself a handy person aroung the house who could fix most things, only I grew up with the internet so instead of calling up past experiences I learned things from IDclips and applied that to my jobs coming out with much better results than my dad. Moreover I learned to be self sufficient so instead of someone holding a light for me I got myself a light helmet, instead of someone holding the wood for me to cut I bought clamps to hold it in place. I don't need someone to constantly order around and yell at to get the job done.

  • fat boi
    fat boi 3 bulan yang lalu +3354

    Thanks to you, my entire school is now repeatedly saying "emotional damage" whenever someone says the word emotional. Which is a lot. Thank you Steven.
    Edit: What. 1.4k likes. Thanks guys that's pretty cool.

    • Andrija Cejovic
      Andrija Cejovic 2 bulan yang lalu

      Same with mine, it became universal at this point

    • Aoyami Uriko
      Aoyami Uriko 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      @Steven He trademark something and make merchandise, dont miss the bag, u make a lot of ppls day and deserve the fruit of it

    • fat boi
      fat boi 3 bulan yang lalu

      @Angelo Absolutely

    • Angelo
      Angelo 3 bulan yang lalu

      @fat boi Can i have Aqua?

  • BeKazakh
    BeKazakh 17 hari yang lalu +1

    Ahah! Yo, from Kazakhstan. Now I know who taught my parents to these skills:) Seems like our asian cultures are more similar than I expected. I am impressed. All jokes are worked

  • Roger Lawes
    Roger Lawes 2 bulan yang lalu +6

    I love how mum holds the balance of power when dad gets out of line

  • virgofairy88
    virgofairy88 6 hari yang lalu

    My mom did some of things to me and my sister unintentionally-but we still have some emotional damage. Great video!

  • Joj Rosos
    Joj Rosos Bulan Yang lalu

    Hahaha! This is truly legit bruh, I could totally feel myself with this video (especially the tools and the using the flashlight for your dad), sh-t happens when u goofed up. It was truly a memorable Asian home experience

  • GeLLee
    GeLLee 3 bulan yang lalu +3701

    no one can deliver the line "emotional damage" better than Steven He.

    • EmperorMurfy
      EmperorMurfy 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      @Little 7s na not all asians. also other people who aren't asian can do it to its just easier when you learn chinese and have the accent. cause i have a american friend who can do it. decently well yet a korean one sucks at doing "emotional damage" which in it self IS emotional damage.

    • Little 7s
      Little 7s 3 bulan yang lalu

      asians can i guess

    • EmperorMurfy
      EmperorMurfy 3 bulan yang lalu

      I take on ur challenge

    • lsh
      lsh 3 bulan yang lalu

      @darkdragon99 because steven he is the one

    • CATELlegend1
      CATELlegend1 3 bulan yang lalu +2

      Yes if there is a "world history session with God as host " after life, there must be a honorable prize to this.

  • ForeverTya21
    ForeverTya21 9 hari yang lalu +1

    That's true that children who don't have money will feel the full weight of emotional damage in a supermarket when their parents are not in line with them. Lmao! 🤣😂😆

  • Milkshake Draws
    Milkshake Draws 2 bulan yang lalu +4

    My dad isn’t even Asian yet this is still completely accurate

  • Elvis Sun
    Elvis Sun 2 bulan yang lalu

    Thanks! I checked AIKI's stock history and learned what failure stands for. It went from $150k to $0.39 😂

  • Dominique Echo
    Dominique Echo 2 bulan yang lalu +7

    The fact that I still can't keep a straight face everytime he says "eMoTiOnaL dAmAgE" 💀

  • Christopher Cheney
    Christopher Cheney 3 bulan yang lalu +5505

    “The unfairness adds extra flavor to the emotional damage” hits soo close to home lol

    • lo re
      lo re 19 hari yang lalu

      I remember the worst spanking I ever got as a child. Will never forget it. I was about 10 years old. I told my mother I was going down the street, about 4 houses down, to play with a friend. She said OK. My friend's adult sister had just purchased an RV and parked it in front of their house, so I, my older sister, and other kids from the block went into the parked RV to check it out. I guess my mom called out for me (this is MANY years ago, WAAY before cell phones), and she didn't see me at first. When she did find me, she was furious, grabbed me by the arm in front of my friends, and spanked me the whole way home, propelling me down the sidewalk, spank, step, spank, step, spank, step, screaming at me all the way. No one else got in trouble for being inside the (perfectly safe, parked) RV, not even my sister, just me. I was mortified knowing my friends watched my mom spank me all the way down the block, and silently outraged at the injustice of it because I was where I said I would be, in front of my friend's house. The unfairness added extra flavor to the emotional damage!!
      (Steven, please use a version of this in one of your videos! Maybe the catharsis I will get from seeing it will help heal the emotional damage. Not joking.)

    • Dawn Ethan
      Dawn Ethan 2 bulan yang lalu +3

      Lmao I read this along him xD at the same time what a coincidence

    • Malakai J
      Malakai J 3 bulan yang lalu +15

      Way close that you start feeling clusterphobic

    • Jack P
      Jack P 3 bulan yang lalu +20

      Far too effective 😞

    • Astral king
      Astral king 3 bulan yang lalu +30

      Very effective

  • Markus Chua (Rosythsch)
    Markus Chua (Rosythsch) 3 hari yang lalu

    2:17 exactly me when i am trying to solve a math question during exam but its so hard i want to give up but then the thought of good grades support me BUT I STILL AM TRYING TO SOLVE THE DAMN QUESTION

  • C-SCI-3
    C-SCI-3 2 bulan yang lalu

    Lowkey miss the days where Steven's dad would noticeably smile when describing how much pain each method inflicts

  • Matthew Legend
    Matthew Legend 2 bulan yang lalu +3

    I grew up with European parents and this was exactly how it was. It was a nightmare

  • Chris J
    Chris J 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    Brilliant. I’ve been using this technique on my 8 year old. It really works!! 🤣😂🤣

  • Vivian Pham
    Vivian Pham 3 bulan yang lalu +2160

    I am extremely worried for the well being of Steven’s future children...

    • Nuclear Potato
      Nuclear Potato 20 jam yang lalu

      Nah his children will have more work experience at age 9 then most 30 years olds they will be fine

    • Pineapple Goddess
      Pineapple Goddess 5 hari yang lalu

      We all r

    • N Fels
      N Fels 7 hari yang lalu

      Doesn't even go back that far. All things DIY and engineering related in our house went like that and I'm 36 now.

    • Emine Cinar
      Emine Cinar 9 hari yang lalu

      No they are not his children but failures

    • Hinata ⁷💞
      Hinata ⁷💞 3 bulan yang lalu

      Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter"
      Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la lease que escriba bien mamon hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado.por la vida dura que se vive hoy .
      Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım''
      Erinder: ''Sezimdüü''
      Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak''
      Dene: ''Muzdak''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾

  • João Alexandre
    João Alexandre Bulan Yang lalu +10

    I once had a very important test when I was a young teenager. I lived with my japanese grandfather. I had a really strong stomach ache and had to go to the bathroom, in part out of nervousness I think. He called me and I told you I was in the bathroom, but he didn't hear me. He got frustrated, and just left in his car. I had to run all the way to the school, was let in late probably out of pity, made the test in tears and was chewed out over not yelling where I was loud enough when I got home.
    I got the top grade on my year for that test (it was a multiple choice simulation similar to college admission exams).
    It was, of course, "nothing more than my obligation".

    • oriricha
      oriricha 8 hari yang lalu

      @João Alexandre it makes sense. For some time I’ve thought that having a bit too much pressure from your caretakers (or parents) would be better than having none. Being raised by people who don’t care what you do with your life either way is not necessarily more relaxing because you grow up without the tools required to “fight your way up” so to speak. Then everything becomes a bigger chore than it actually is and people linger in mediocrity like there is nowhere out. Anyways, thanks for answering. The trick is in the balance, as usual.

    • João Alexandre
      João Alexandre 8 hari yang lalu +1

      @oriricha lol I actually got into a pretty good med school and tried to finish it until I had a bad mental breakdown and dropped out. Nowadays after some years of therapy and medication I'm mostly fine, working some freelance jobs and halfway through a history graduation (thankfully in my country the best universities are the public ones, which are free). But this pressure definetly fucked up a good portion of my life - and some members of my family kind of never forgave me for making it into a medicine grad school and having the audacity of not wanting to be a doctor. It's hard to say how much of it was the overall mentality of toxic demands for academic excellence and how much of it was people trying to make me become a doctor regardless of my wishes because both of those things are very closely linked together. But overall from what I've seen from other Asian descended kids I know, I'd say that this way of raising kids makes most of them become either full of neurosis that they have to hide, severely depressed, or both. The few kids who turn out both happy and successful are so in spite of their home lives, not because of it. There's a *lot* of mutual complaining whenever we meet about how all this pressure gave us great math scores but we never learned how to do a lot of practical stuff or just deal with conflict or disagreements because we were supposed to be obedient and accepting, both from other kids I grew up with or with children of other Asian parents with this sort of mindset I ended up meeting afterwards.

    • oriricha
      oriricha 11 hari yang lalu

      and how successful are you today? I’m just curious of the effects of this

  • Alex Terra
    Alex Terra 2 jam yang lalu

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate how he says branch? I love it

  • Mackenzie
    Mackenzie 9 hari yang lalu +1

    Wait till Steven learns that in some places, you can sue for *emotional damage*

  • Audrey Walker
    Audrey Walker 28 hari yang lalu +9

    1 ❤ Hermosa eleccion Odading.Xxlovezzz.Uno de mejor
    -2 ( elecciones ) 9.6/10-
    -3 ( culturales ) 9.7/10-
    Son unos de los mejores conciertosn

  • AnonR
    AnonR 3 bulan yang lalu +3839

    “Its not in aisle 8” and “Leave your kid at the register so you can go get something stupid” is depressingly accurate.

    • Jonathan Jackson
      Jonathan Jackson 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      Im a cashier so I've seen it happen 😃❤️😁😁

    • G Siya
      G Siya 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      They'll be like get the brown color one
      In reality it's orange or red 🥲

    • Gordon Xu
      Gordon Xu 3 bulan yang lalu +4

      How to counter: just walk out of the shop and let parent wait for you

    • Upsidedown
      Upsidedown 3 bulan yang lalu +22

      What's even worse, is when your parents leave you at the register and the cashier starts scanning your items and your mom still isn't back

    • Cypressgem
      Cypressgem 3 bulan yang lalu +3

      I naruto run when my parents tell me that like I just hear the people speaking in chinese:
      ''Why is that child running like that''

  • WayTooMuchSwag
    WayTooMuchSwag Bulan Yang lalu +1

    Saw the word "failure" in a headline this morning and my brain instantly read it in Steven's voice 😂

  • MaxDaPig
    MaxDaPig 16 hari yang lalu +7

    0:46 when he said “not any lower” he moved his phone higher, and when he said “not any higher” he lowered the phone

  • -𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐝

    Very good failure management.
    My children will never be the same.
    This has been recommended for parents for generations in my family, and you are our savior.
    My ancestors thank you for this guide.

  • FireNinja743
    FireNinja743 Bulan Yang lalu +1

    I remember when Steven used to have under 500k subscribers. Amazing progression.

  • Man like salimo
    Man like salimo 3 bulan yang lalu +2164

    This man will make us all proud when raising children
    Edit: Holy shit 1.5k likes thanks guys

  • Evelyn Washington
    Evelyn Washington 15 hari yang lalu +12

    Eres un ídolo XXlike.Uno siempre en mi corazón, hermosa, amor, elecciones, culturales.❤
    Son unos de los mejores conciertos.

  • Illusion Noveller
    Illusion Noveller 2 bulan yang lalu +4

    I pray for steven's future kids!

  • Youtube Premium
    Youtube Premium Bulan Yang lalu

    This is so accurate it still gives me chills.

  • XxlxvnderXx
    XxlxvnderXx Bulan Yang lalu +2

    My parents definitely took notes from here because they did every single thing mentioned here to me 😂😂😂

  • Kamarr Johnson
    Kamarr Johnson 3 bulan yang lalu +1703

    dude really said “not as low as your IQ” i couldn’t hold it together and my entire job heard me cracking up in the break room

  • Olivial
    Olivial 2 bulan yang lalu

    I think this is just every parent.. ever… this video gave me memories of my parents doing THE EXACT SAME THINGS and its making me anxious in the funniest way possible lmao

  • Anwesh Sinha
    Anwesh Sinha 4 hari yang lalu

    Steven is doing a great job in increasing our attention span....👍👍👍

  • Johnny
    Johnny 2 bulan yang lalu

    "but be so vague it's impossible" gets me every time lmao

  • Action Man
    Action Man 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    This Emotional Damage is so Iconic now and I love it 😂

  • Dr. Phil Peanut M&M
    Dr. Phil Peanut M&M 3 bulan yang lalu +3913

    Ok. Can we be serious.
    Stevens dad is literally carrying his yt channel.

    • Lady Estella Rose
      Lady Estella Rose 2 bulan yang lalu

      @Miles Marcuson Darn it, you said it before I could!

    • Miles Marcuson
      Miles Marcuson 3 bulan yang lalu +2

      Emotional damage.

    • Dave Manoj
      Dave Manoj 3 bulan yang lalu +2

      @Steven He what happend tot ur eye in this vid. like theres a scar

    • Taz Virdee
      Taz Virdee 3 bulan yang lalu +1


  • Errolea brown
    Errolea brown 4 hari yang lalu

    I think my mother and all the people I knew were Asian and I now understand why I have so much emotional damage, thank you for this insight

  • GingerZombie29
    GingerZombie29 Bulan Yang lalu

    "That right there...is emotional damage."
    Great delivery.

  • Bielsky
    Bielsky 5 hari yang lalu

    I'm a grown ass man, the other day I went with my mom to the grocery, we were next in line at the counter, she forgot tissue papers and went to get them, you could say I was sweating so much as I was about to pay and she still was not there

  • Christy Scott
    Christy Scott 2 bulan yang lalu +15

    Hermosa elección ❤️ likeex.Uno
    de los mejores 😘
    21:23 Senada: "Hermoso"
    21:24 Megan: "Hotter"
    24:23 Hopi: "Sweeter"
    25:27 Joonie: "Cooler"
    20:23 Yoongi: "Butter"
    23:26 Amor: "Momentos"
    17:51 Son unos de los mejores conciertos 🖤
    20:26 Megan: "Hotter"
    10:25 Alana: "Awesome"
    11:24 Belleza doops
    35:23 Son unos de los mejores conciertos, no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 🖤
    10:32 Hopi: "Sweeter" uz39

  • MeliMelon
    MeliMelon 3 bulan yang lalu +2776

    Another good way to cause emotional damage is to tell your kid to do one task, then right after they start yell at them to do another task even though they aren't done, then when they start on the new task yell at them for not finishing the other task. This should cause emotional damage that will affect their ability to multi-task for the rest of their life. For extra affect, add more than three tasks at once

    • Hector Rodriguez
      Hector Rodriguez 8 hari yang lalu

      Yeah that's Mexican parents right there

    • Adam Yin
      Adam Yin 10 hari yang lalu


    • TitaniumSamurai
      TitaniumSamurai 12 hari yang lalu

      It worked on me

    • Vishwajith
      Vishwajith 16 hari yang lalu

      Oh man .. i get this everyday and I'm 18 yrs old ... This sucks 😭

    • Sergio Carta
      Sergio Carta 17 hari yang lalu

      You mean tell your failure, not your kid

  • Bluish Blow
    Bluish Blow 2 bulan yang lalu

    i was so frustrated interacting with my parents, but somehow knoing that i don't suffer alone makes me feel better

  • James Thomas
    James Thomas Bulan Yang lalu

    His emotional damage has transcended other memes...well done!!

  • G. Dileonardo
    G. Dileonardo 2 bulan yang lalu +5

    It doesn't even have to make sense; just the pronunciation is the killer!! I salute you sir !

  • Adeum Deus
    Adeum Deus 3 hari yang lalu

    "It's there in isle 8."
    "It's not in isle 8 "
    "You guessed it, there is no green bottle."
    I can't breathe LMFAO 🤣 😂

    A RANDOM WEEB 3 bulan yang lalu +708

    “Go get the screw driver over there”
    “Which one?”
    “The one in the box”
    I might not be Asian but as a Hispanic I can really feel this emotional damage hitting hard

    • KittiezGamingYT
      KittiezGamingYT 3 bulan yang lalu

      technically the dad is wrong cuz there are multiple, and he said "one"

    • SDB ModGamer
      SDB ModGamer 3 bulan yang lalu

      @Steven He upload more in Steven He Live please❤️ I love your content fellow Asian

    • Big Killy Wazza
      Big Killy Wazza 3 bulan yang lalu

      @Steven He Indeed, the whole world has already watched this video, IDclips just doesn't display it, and that is how IDclips deals emotional damage to me

    • Steven He
      Steven He  3 bulan yang lalu +11

      HAHAHAHA the whole world felt this one

  • the unknown axolotl
    the unknown axolotl 2 bulan yang lalu

    even without emtional damage this guy is so funny 🤣🤣

  • Anya Saeed
    Anya Saeed 5 hari yang lalu

    I too have curled up in the fetal position due to the "Emotional Damage" inflicted by S Asian parents 😅

  • Vimean Meng
    Vimean Meng 8 hari yang lalu

    All these points are spot on haha. Very effective ways to cause emotional damage. I am a living proof lol

  • Dr Vinnie Boombatz
    Dr Vinnie Boombatz 2 bulan yang lalu

    I've never been so happy in my life to have emotional damage.

  • Ragnarok Solstice
    Ragnarok Solstice 3 bulan yang lalu +1937

    I’m now convinced that this isn’t just a Guideline, but a complete daily checklist for all parents, both new and veterans🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • N Fels
      N Fels 7 hari yang lalu +2

      @Thulani Langa
      You've never done battle on the baby diarrhea front if it strikes you as odd that parents describe themselves as veterans. 😉
      They sometimes say the sky is the limit, but I'm pretty sure one meter above the commode is the max.

    • errol kim
      errol kim 8 hari yang lalu +2

      Its a professional introduction course. If you master it you can move on to different grades, like belts in Karate

    • Anonymous & Random
      Anonymous & Random 3 bulan yang lalu +13

      You said it

    • Thulani Langa
      Thulani Langa 3 bulan yang lalu +17

      Veterans wtf 🤣🤣🤣

  • HeslaySnave
    HeslaySnave 2 bulan yang lalu

    Im fairly sure every dad has their own way of causing emotional damage

  • Anjali Pareek
    Anjali Pareek 14 hari yang lalu

    This man just explained my whole life 😭😭😂

  • RC Birds
    RC Birds 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    "Ask your failure..." as long he's not my dad I celebrate his methods😊

  • v8matey
    v8matey 2 bulan yang lalu

    I love how he forces his Asian accent.
    My mate at work is Asian sounds like a normal Aussie guy. But when he's on the phone he forces his accent like Steven He does. So funny.

  • Sarah Schopick
    Sarah Schopick 3 bulan yang lalu +2371

    OMG my mom totally does both “grocery line” and “reverse grocery line”. Once she even told me to put the cart away and started driving away while I was doing it. So, I relate to this video on a spiritual level.

    • ChumpyLumpy
      ChumpyLumpy 3 bulan yang lalu

      @Some Yeti with Internet Access bro for the grocery one I legit just let people go in front of me when it was my turn

    • Feed The Twinkie
      Feed The Twinkie 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      Haha, why must our moms drive away when we put the cart back?

    • Joey Matsumoto
      Joey Matsumoto 3 bulan yang lalu +3

      Same, that’s like the most terrifying thing on earth when the line gets closer and closer but ur parent still didn’t come back

    • 僕の伝説の星
      僕の伝説の星 3 bulan yang lalu +2

      @An Intellectual Clone thanks, I sometimes struggle to understand the difference between Spanish and Portuguese because I've never taken them

    • An Intellectual Clone
      An Intellectual Clone 3 bulan yang lalu +1

      @僕の伝説の星 well, its, uh, its spanish, but yeah, report that bot

    THE MACHINE  5 hari yang lalu

    This video is so relatable to almost everyone who experience it

  • Shadow Warrior
    Shadow Warrior 2 bulan yang lalu

    Bro this is good content! I use emotional damage on my Freinds all the time!!!❤️🤣

  • awkward avocado
    awkward avocado 2 bulan yang lalu +2

    "no not as low as your IQ level" someone give this guy an award pls

  • Oh Wow
    Oh Wow 2 bulan yang lalu

    Thank you for explaining emotional damage for us. 😆

  • Kshitiz Bhandari
    Kshitiz Bhandari 3 bulan yang lalu +3967

    “You said hold it low.”
    “Not as low as your IQ”
    Had me 😂😂
    Edit: and I’m getting more notifications from this comment than my own channel😂

    • R - G - C
      R - G - C 3 bulan yang lalu

      @Kshitiz Bhandari Then why is 11 notification more than your whole channel?

    • Kshitiz Bhandari
      Kshitiz Bhandari 3 bulan yang lalu

      @R - G - C says the man with 129 subscribers

    • R - G - C
      R - G - C 3 bulan yang lalu

      Then your channel must be quite dead lol.

    • サグネ
      サグネ 3 bulan yang lalu

      _*Emotional damage_

  • Nekobaby
    Nekobaby Bulan Yang lalu

    Reverse Grocery Line... My mum still does this to this day. 😭 She constantly wanders off to get something else when we're already in checkout. Been driving me nuts since I was a kid. Lol.

  • Ariz0na Heat
    Ariz0na Heat Bulan Yang lalu

    For the Reverse grocery line thing, I feel like a child would just become numb and just not care and do absolutely nothing, whenever you ask or say of 🤣

  • Andreas Sofocleous
    Andreas Sofocleous 2 bulan yang lalu +1

    My family is Greek and my father was a contractor his whole life, so that screwdriver bit was dead on