Girl Talk : My Boyfriend Doesn’t Get It!! ft itsjinakim

I'm confused trying to understand the double date scenario 😅

bruh i love it when the Kims are together❤

Some people talk about there ex to tell there boyfriend why they broke up or how there ex treated them in hopes that if you tell your now boyfriend why you two didnt work that he would not do the same thing they did

The one with the big earrings is skanky. Her aura is very gutter.

As I was sitting here watching this, I just kept wondering how these men could be this clueless when it comes to women. Maybe it's just me but, I was raised a whole lot better than that.

How young are you Rachel? You're so youthful but mature as well.

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YAY IT'S JINA

Men and women’s brains are actually wired differently, we’ll never really understand them and vice versa, they process information and emotions differently to us, so as the saying goes “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. 😂

I've never been in a relationship, but you both taught me a lot!

Why are men and women so different? Because men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
Why am I watching this when I'm single?... I'll show myself out.

Ikr

The more I listen to women talk about this kind of thing the more it reminds me of why I have never been able to figure out why would women be interested in men. I suppose I'll never understand since I'm an hetero guy who's never been interested romantically on other guys.

In my 42 years i have never met a man who loved women in the genuine sense of what love is. They say they love them but in reality they don't feel love ; what I mean is that they cannot distinguish between love and sexual desire. Men are easily exited by a woman they feel attracted to ; but that is not love. It's just animal instinct for reproduction.

I can say personally that men in general are oblivious when it comes to signals that women give off. I know that I am super oblivious, to the point that the woman would have to make the first move with me cause I have no clue. The ex thing I have been guilty of myself and I know that it will get old real quick to the other person. Also Jina's comment out of left saying cause men have d*##*s made me laugh hard... I was like wait... what? lol..

I wish people in America were culturally like koreans because I get jealous if my boyfriend hugs another girl like his bestfriend because I feel jealous for some reason 😂

Hi Rachel noona please notice me

Hi Jina noona please notice me

Okey Dokey Kim hold my hand 😂

Men are complex Bart not Every man is the same you have some that can understand you you just have to search for the right One And The Things You Say You're definitely right

Korean woman were complicated before with the cultural difference and language barrier, Now I know I will never have a chance lol And yes 95% of me are kinda retarted lol

"Guys are not that smart" lost it 😂

If itsjinakim was light skin with afro kinky curly hair with glasses she'd look exactly like my friend

I enjoyed this video. But I am commenting because I LOVE Jina's top! Where did you get it?

Man, wherever y’all filmed this sure looks good!

Jina is right, they are simple! Be straightforward with a man

I guess we all are either from Venus or Mars lol

You young ladies are a hoot. Y'all crack me up. I love you both.

I have this wonderful picture with "men rules that girls should know":
- Men are not mind readers
- Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
- If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

There are about 15 more, but they're not related to this video ;-)

I really love your videos, and Jina's videos as well. And most of all when you're doing videos together! It's always so much fun watching the two of you!

"am I your cover?!" ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ..
That comment totally killed me!

Hilarious 😂

Honestly I feel a lot of these could just be avoided if couples are more direct. Instead of hoping your partner gets it or you hope they do something. just say whats up.

Y'all really need to date more foreigners.... Just kidding a lot of us make these mistakes hahahaha.

I agree It’s so hard to read someone through text. At least with phone calls you can hear their emotion I bit I guess 😅

Give him a good smack to the face and maybe he'll get it XD

Jina is so beautiful !

I believe a relationship is built on trust, loyalty, and love. Without those 3 things a relationship is doomed to fail. I would never bring a friend on a date with my girlfriend! That's laughable to even think that's ok unless its a social setting with lots of people there!;) And yes it's wrong to be overly affectionate with anyone especially if you are already in a relationship. I always try to be very conscious of my significant others thoughts and feelings. Now being American Gina is right about the casual hugs with friends!;) We do that here, but again being overly affectionate can land you in the dog house very quickly!😂 Again love all your videos!;) And as always you look very Beautiful Rachel!💗 See you next Sunday!;)

I remember a story I read a long time ago about a married couple. They met for lunch and the man seemed distracted, the woman immediately assumed something was wrong in the relationship. The story went on with the woman's mind wondering what she could have done wrong, or what had happened to make him feel this way. She was coming up with all these scenarios of why he might be distracted, and she even asked him at one point to which he replied " It's nothing important" and this went on for a long time. At the end of the story we switch to the man's brain to read that, and we get "Motorcycle won't start, don't know why". Like it or not, we are different.

The most waited collab I love you two so much 💕

Rachel: Why are we so different?

Jina: because, we are women and they are men. They have dicks, that's why.

There were some good surprise jokes in this!

I live in the USA and my girlfriend is from cheonan, south korea and speaks broken english (she studied english starting in college) I sometimes don't understand what she says but I understand her 90% of the time

My two favorite IDclipsrs together again! 🧡🧡🧡 You ladies are so wise. You understand that you need to be more direct with what you want with some guys (because as Jina said, "guys are not that smart") ㅋㅋㅋㅋ You also understand that most guys just want to please you and are not trying to be mean or offend you (Like Rachel said). Relationships are complicated, especially early in a relationship. You will find the more experienced and mature a person is, the better he or she will be in understanding the needs of his or her partner. Then again there will always be people who are just clueless, no matter what their age. ㅋㅋㅋㅋ Another awesome video! God Bless.

You need to stop dating Korean Guys.

Your shirt has a hole in it ;)

I mean if you make it that obvious for the guy, then he is lowkey rejecting you. At the same time, in US its pretty understood there is a boundary.

Talking about an x when your on a date, means they still have feelings for that person. Not a good sign at all. One little complaint, playing music in the background when your talking is sooo distracting, and really no need for it.

Jina @ 11:18 is scary 😳😬😜. I’m guessing that if a guy crossed Jina, he would come home one day and see a rabbit 🐰 in a large pot on the stove. 😳🤪

Cuties 😂

I definitly feel the last topic. I´ve been through this. as a guy, i can say: "Just make it clear its just you and me". Like say... You call me at work that you want to go to the cinema and watch Movie 123. A very good work collegue ask me what my plans for the evening are and i tell them that i´m going to watch movie 123 with my girlfriend at the cinema.. He probaply say that he want to see that movie too but is afraid to go alone, so he ask to join us... make a long story short.. if the boyfriend know that this is an "only we" thing than its all gonna be ok

Men can be Oblivious most of the time. Men need to be told directly but some women like to be subtle and give hints. Most men do not get hints or pay attention 🤷🏻‍♀️

My face muscles hurt from smiling and laughing. You two are awesome.

I mean Jina's not wrong... 😂 We tend to think with *that* sometimes instead of our brains. Every guy does.

Who on earth would turn away if Rachel tries to kiss you? That's my question! :|

I can happily say I don’t do 1-3, but I can see myself accidentally doing 4 or 5. Sometimes I may just be oblivious to the specific situation at the time, may be in my own world at that moment and not realize a small thing. But I would never intentionally do something that would hurt their feelings and I would hope they know that about me.
You are right though - us men, we’re simple and just don’t get it sometimes. But you are also right that communication is key. It’s ok to be upset the first time, but talk about it when you’re ready. If it keeps happening then you know how things will go long term. It’s all about having the same understanding and growing together.

"Guys are not that smart" xD
And I totally agree, we tend to create this idea on how he/she should be, and then blame them because they don't fit in our own expectations instead of loving who they really are.

I believe that in situations like you are on a date with your friend and his girlfriend, it's better for you, as a friend, to give attention to the girlfriend and creat moments where she can join the conversation and be friends to her. Otherwise, the girl might think you want to stole her boyfriend.

Thank you both for the valuable insight!

People are complicated. Relationships are complicated. And it certainly doesn't help when there's a lack of proper & open communication.

I would feel so bad if I didn’t get the subtle hints. I’ll make it up 100 times like I did with my exes (hmmm must be my character flaw 🙁) oh no i just talked about my ex. I do get a little green when I see you talk to other guys - 😬