Girl Talk : My Boyfriend Doesn’t Get It!! ft itsjinakim

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    In this episode, Jina and I had a girl talk 💛
    New Popular Opinion episode! When my boyfriend just doesn’t get it 😆😂
    Thank you Jina for joining with me today!
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Komentar • 85

  • David Nunez
    David Nunez 6 jam yang lalu

    I'm confused trying to understand the double date scenario 😅

  • Niomi Lathon
    Niomi Lathon 2 hari yang lalu

    bruh i love it when the Kims are together❤

  • Night Wolf
    Night Wolf 17 hari yang lalu

    Some people talk about there ex to tell there boyfriend why they broke up or how there ex treated them in hopes that if you tell your now boyfriend why you two didnt work that he would not do the same thing they did

  • steve beineke
    steve beineke 24 hari yang lalu

    The one with the big earrings is skanky. Her aura is very gutter.

  • Mark Heisler
    Mark Heisler 27 hari yang lalu +2

    As I was sitting here watching this, I just kept wondering how these men could be this clueless when it comes to women. Maybe it's just me but, I was raised a whole lot better than that.

  • Ms. Wilson
    Ms. Wilson 29 hari yang lalu +1

    How young are you Rachel? You're so youthful but mature as well.

  • Ms. Wilson
    Ms. Wilson 29 hari yang lalu


  • Ms. Wilson
    Ms. Wilson 29 hari yang lalu


  • Louise. Feather
    Louise. Feather 29 hari yang lalu

    Men and women’s brains are actually wired differently, we’ll never really understand them and vice versa, they process information and emotions differently to us, so as the saying goes “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. 😂

  • ramo13121
    ramo13121 29 hari yang lalu

    I've never been in a relationship, but you both taught me a lot!

  • KeepItSimple
    KeepItSimple Bulan Yang lalu +2

    Why are men and women so different? Because men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
    Why am I watching this when I'm single?... I'll show myself out.

  • PuNkin Oi
    PuNkin Oi Bulan Yang lalu


  • GMLFree
    GMLFree Bulan Yang lalu

    The more I listen to women talk about this kind of thing the more it reminds me of why I have never been able to figure out why would women be interested in men. I suppose I'll never understand since I'm an hetero guy who's never been interested romantically on other guys.

  • GMLFree
    GMLFree Bulan Yang lalu +1

    In my 42 years i have never met a man who loved women in the genuine sense of what love is. They say they love them but in reality they don't feel love ; what I mean is that they cannot distinguish between love and sexual desire. Men are easily exited by a woman they feel attracted to ; but that is not love. It's just animal instinct for reproduction.

  • Kiba Kurai
    Kiba Kurai Bulan Yang lalu

    I can say personally that men in general are oblivious when it comes to signals that women give off. I know that I am super oblivious, to the point that the woman would have to make the first move with me cause I have no clue. The ex thing I have been guilty of myself and I know that it will get old real quick to the other person. Also Jina's comment out of left saying cause men have d*##*s made me laugh hard... I was like wait... what? lol..

  • Raven Young
    Raven Young Bulan Yang lalu

    I wish people in America were culturally like koreans because I get jealous if my boyfriend hugs another girl like his bestfriend because I feel jealous for some reason 😂

  • Ashley Zheng
    Ashley Zheng Bulan Yang lalu

    Hi Rachel noona please notice me

  • Ashley Zheng
    Ashley Zheng Bulan Yang lalu

    Hi Jina noona please notice me

  • farrypro
    farrypro Bulan Yang lalu

    Okey Dokey Kim hold my hand 😂

  • Patrick
    Patrick Bulan Yang lalu

    Men are complex Bart not Every man is the same you have some that can understand you you just have to search for the right One And The Things You Say You're definitely right

  • matthew
    matthew Bulan Yang lalu

    Korean woman were complicated before with the cultural difference and language barrier, Now I know I will never have a chance lol And yes 95% of me are kinda retarted lol

  • Zib Pepito
    Zib Pepito Bulan Yang lalu +3

    "Guys are not that smart" lost it 😂

  • Jabbar L
    Jabbar L Bulan Yang lalu

    If itsjinakim was light skin with afro kinky curly hair with glasses she'd look exactly like my friend

  • Brigid Ruberson
    Brigid Ruberson Bulan Yang lalu

    I enjoyed this video. But I am commenting because I LOVE Jina's top! Where did you get it?

  • MiKole
    MiKole Bulan Yang lalu +4

    Man, wherever y’all filmed this sure looks good!

    • Rachel Kim
      Rachel Kim  Bulan Yang lalu +2

      I know, right? I love it!! ;) ;)

  • MoonShine Bri
    MoonShine Bri Bulan Yang lalu +8

    Jina is right, they are simple! Be straightforward with a man

  • clarice tat
    clarice tat Bulan Yang lalu

    I guess we all are either from Venus or Mars lol

  • larry holbrook
    larry holbrook Bulan Yang lalu

    You young ladies are a hoot. Y'all crack me up. I love you both.

  • Shadow81989
    Shadow81989 Bulan Yang lalu +14

    I have this wonderful picture with "men rules that girls should know":
    - Men are not mind readers
    - Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
    - If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

    There are about 15 more, but they're not related to this video ;-)

    I really love your videos, and Jina's videos as well. And most of all when you're doing videos together! It's always so much fun watching the two of you!

    • Livy
      Livy 25 hari yang lalu

      @Shadow81989 O this is interesting !

    • Shadow81989
      Shadow81989 Bulan Yang lalu +8

      ​@MrsLadyPerez sure! Obviously not all of them are to be taken 100% seriously, but even the "joke" rules make a lot of sense ;-)

      1) Men are not mind readers.
      2) Learn to work the toilet seat, you're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. You don't hear us complaining when you leave it down.
      3) Crying is blackmail.
      4) Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
      5) "Yes and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
      6) Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girl friends are for.
      7) Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
      8) If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
      9) If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
      10) You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
      11) Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to during commercials.
      12) Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we...
      13) All men see in only 16 colours. Peach, for example, is a fruit not a colour. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
      14) If we ask what is wrong and you say "Nothing", we act like nothing is wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
      15) If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear...
      16) When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... really.
      17) Don't ask us what we're thinking about, unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as football or motor sports.
      18) You have enough clothes.
      19) You have too many shoes!
      20) I am in shape, round is a shape.
      21) Thank you for reading this! Yes I know, I'm sleeping on the couch tonight... but did you know men don't really mind that? It's like camping...

      You're welcome! :-)

    • MrsLadyPerez
      MrsLadyPerez Bulan Yang lalu

      I would love for you to list them all. Please?

  • Ivan Dominguez
    Ivan Dominguez Bulan Yang lalu +4

    "am I your cover?!" ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ..
    That comment totally killed me!

  • R.O.I. Vlogs
    R.O.I. Vlogs Bulan Yang lalu

    Hilarious 😂

  • Igmar Nagtegaal
    Igmar Nagtegaal Bulan Yang lalu +3

    Honestly I feel a lot of these could just be avoided if couples are more direct. Instead of hoping your partner gets it or you hope they do something. just say whats up.

  • Ponderable
    Ponderable Bulan Yang lalu +3

    Y'all really need to date more foreigners.... Just kidding a lot of us make these mistakes hahahaha.

  • HeyitsKira
    HeyitsKira Bulan Yang lalu +6

    I agree It’s so hard to read someone through text. At least with phone calls you can hear their emotion I bit I guess 😅

  • Charles lee ray
    Charles lee ray Bulan Yang lalu +2

    Give him a good smack to the face and maybe he'll get it XD

  • Mano Do Volei
    Mano Do Volei Bulan Yang lalu +1

    Jina is so beautiful !

  • Ian Louden
    Ian Louden Bulan Yang lalu +2

    I believe a relationship is built on trust, loyalty, and love. Without those 3 things a relationship is doomed to fail. I would never bring a friend on a date with my girlfriend! That's laughable to even think that's ok unless its a social setting with lots of people there!;) And yes it's wrong to be overly affectionate with anyone especially if you are already in a relationship. I always try to be very conscious of my significant others thoughts and feelings. Now being American Gina is right about the casual hugs with friends!;) We do that here, but again being overly affectionate can land you in the dog house very quickly!😂 Again love all your videos!;) And as always you look very Beautiful Rachel!💗 See you next Sunday!;)

  • MrMax89
    MrMax89 Bulan Yang lalu +5

    I remember a story I read a long time ago about a married couple. They met for lunch and the man seemed distracted, the woman immediately assumed something was wrong in the relationship. The story went on with the woman's mind wondering what she could have done wrong, or what had happened to make him feel this way. She was coming up with all these scenarios of why he might be distracted, and she even asked him at one point to which he replied " It's nothing important" and this went on for a long time. At the end of the story we switch to the man's brain to read that, and we get "Motorcycle won't start, don't know why". Like it or not, we are different.

    • Joshua Thabane
      Joshua Thabane Bulan Yang lalu +2

      I was thinking about, "The programming code is not working when I know it should."

    • Tom Riley
      Tom Riley Bulan Yang lalu +1

      Yep I was thinking about the exact same story:-)!

  • miu시반이
    miu시반이 Bulan Yang lalu +2

    The most waited collab I love you two so much 💕

  • Nick Harris
    Nick Harris Bulan Yang lalu

    Rachel: Why are we so different?

    Jina: because, we are women and they are men. They have dicks, that's why.

  • Chancellor Mango
    Chancellor Mango Bulan Yang lalu

    There were some good surprise jokes in this!

  • Andrew Wolfenstein
    Andrew Wolfenstein Bulan Yang lalu +1

    I live in the USA and my girlfriend is from cheonan, south korea and speaks broken english (she studied english starting in college) I sometimes don't understand what she says but I understand her 90% of the time

  • American Oppa 미국인 오빠

    My two favorite IDclipsrs together again! 🧡🧡🧡 You ladies are so wise. You understand that you need to be more direct with what you want with some guys (because as Jina said, "guys are not that smart") ㅋㅋㅋㅋ You also understand that most guys just want to please you and are not trying to be mean or offend you (Like Rachel said). Relationships are complicated, especially early in a relationship. You will find the more experienced and mature a person is, the better he or she will be in understanding the needs of his or her partner. Then again there will always be people who are just clueless, no matter what their age. ㅋㅋㅋㅋ Another awesome video! God Bless.

  • asakuras01
    asakuras01 Bulan Yang lalu

    You need to stop dating Korean Guys.

  • Jake Pietrasz
    Jake Pietrasz Bulan Yang lalu +2

    Your shirt has a hole in it ;)

  • Carlos Rodriguez
    Carlos Rodriguez Bulan Yang lalu +1

    I mean if you make it that obvious for the guy, then he is lowkey rejecting you. At the same time, in US its pretty understood there is a boundary.

  • Brenda marcus
    Brenda marcus Bulan Yang lalu

    Talking about an x when your on a date, means they still have feelings for that person. Not a good sign at all. One little complaint, playing music in the background when your talking is sooo distracting, and really no need for it.

  • mx5hong
    mx5hong Bulan Yang lalu +1

    Jina @ 11:18 is scary 😳😬😜. I’m guessing that if a guy crossed Jina, he would come home one day and see a rabbit 🐰 in a large pot on the stove. 😳🤪

  • Ivy C
    Ivy C Bulan Yang lalu +1

    Cuties 😂

  • pino preppino
    pino preppino Bulan Yang lalu

    I definitly feel the last topic. I´ve been through this. as a guy, i can say: "Just make it clear its just you and me". Like say... You call me at work that you want to go to the cinema and watch Movie 123. A very good work collegue ask me what my plans for the evening are and i tell them that i´m going to watch movie 123 with my girlfriend at the cinema.. He probaply say that he want to see that movie too but is afraid to go alone, so he ask to join us... make a long story short.. if the boyfriend know that this is an "only we" thing than its all gonna be ok

  • AimeeJ
    AimeeJ Bulan Yang lalu +3

    Men can be Oblivious most of the time. Men need to be told directly but some women like to be subtle and give hints. Most men do not get hints or pay attention 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Neno Snipeslookalike
    Neno Snipeslookalike Bulan Yang lalu +14

    My face muscles hurt from smiling and laughing. You two are awesome.

  • Champion Spanky732
    Champion Spanky732 Bulan Yang lalu

    I mean Jina's not wrong... 😂 We tend to think with *that* sometimes instead of our brains. Every guy does.

  • Tanax13
    Tanax13 Bulan Yang lalu +6

    Who on earth would turn away if Rachel tries to kiss you? That's my question! :|

    • Ms. Wilson
      Ms. Wilson 29 hari yang lalu +1

      I'd even let her and I'm a straight female hahaha

    • Joey
      Joey Bulan Yang lalu +2

      Exactly! They are just crazy. One would only be so lucky to be with either of these women.

  • Joey
    Joey Bulan Yang lalu +2

    I can happily say I don’t do 1-3, but I can see myself accidentally doing 4 or 5. Sometimes I may just be oblivious to the specific situation at the time, may be in my own world at that moment and not realize a small thing. But I would never intentionally do something that would hurt their feelings and I would hope they know that about me.
    You are right though - us men, we’re simple and just don’t get it sometimes. But you are also right that communication is key. It’s ok to be upset the first time, but talk about it when you’re ready. If it keeps happening then you know how things will go long term. It’s all about having the same understanding and growing together.

  • Christian Dürr
    Christian Dürr Bulan Yang lalu +34

    "Guys are not that smart" xD
    And I totally agree, we tend to create this idea on how he/she should be, and then blame them because they don't fit in our own expectations instead of loving who they really are.

    • blazewrecker
      blazewrecker Bulan Yang lalu

      Speak for yourself.....😐

    • mx5hong
      mx5hong Bulan Yang lalu

      Oh boy, you spilled da beans. HAHAHA!!!!!

    • Joey
      Joey Bulan Yang lalu


  • Aida
    Aida Bulan Yang lalu +4

    I believe that in situations like you are on a date with your friend and his girlfriend, it's better for you, as a friend, to give attention to the girlfriend and creat moments where she can join the conversation and be friends to her. Otherwise, the girl might think you want to stole her boyfriend.

  • Tyranus421
    Tyranus421 Bulan Yang lalu +2

    Thank you both for the valuable insight!

  • terebiomimasu
    terebiomimasu Bulan Yang lalu +46

    People are complicated. Relationships are complicated. And it certainly doesn't help when there's a lack of proper & open communication.

    • 80811B
      80811B 26 hari yang lalu +1

      @Rachel Kim well also understanding and open mindedness because its cross nationality so different cultures especially the dating culture Americans we like to banter so many times you hear us talking crap to each others face but because that's our way we like busting each others chops to bond l.

    • Rachel Kim
      Rachel Kim  Bulan Yang lalu +3

      Communication is always the key!

    • Ernie Strother
      Ernie Strother Bulan Yang lalu

      I agree a hundred percent.

    • Joey
      Joey Bulan Yang lalu +1

      True. First time shouldn’t be a major problem but if it keeps happening after communicating, then unfortunately it’s probably not for the best.

  • CAMCAM413
    CAMCAM413 Bulan Yang lalu +2

    I would feel so bad if I didn’t get the subtle hints. I’ll make it up 100 times like I did with my exes (hmmm must be my character flaw 🙁) oh no i just talked about my ex. I do get a little green when I see you talk to other guys - 😬